Getting GF interested in at least giving it a shot?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by ExceedExpectations, Apr 16, 2013.

  1. Been lurking around this forum for a couple of weeks now and must say that I really like it!
     
    #1 ExceedExpectations, Apr 16, 2013
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  2. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Take it from an old married woman ... COMMUNICATION is crucial!! You have to talk, and talk openly, about any concerns, questions, fantasies, whatever. Just be honest and open with each other.
     
  3. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Communication differs with every couple. Only you and your gf know how you communicate best with each other. Good luck!
     
  4. eyespy07

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    I've been in the same boat, man. It really depends on the girl and how open she is to trying things with you. If you make her feel really comfortable, then you might have a shot. There are certain "steps" that people here have listed that might help you out. Ask around.
     
  5. beginner

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    ive been there too, tell her you like the idea and watch that kinda porn together , if she sees how much it turns you on or how much you like it shell defntly give it a go ,. maybe not soon .. just be open and talk openly ... of what u like and why you like it ... goodluck..
    and sorry for my bad english
     
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  6. That has crossed my mind before. Thanks a lot for the respons!
     
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  7. eyespy07

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    I don't have a link. Sorry bro. However, I know you're not into the cuck scene (neither am I) and that link is geared more towards that. However, one thing that you can do is start slowing watching different kinds of porn together. Especially what SHE wants to see. Watch a variety to get her comfortable. Then, slowly introduce IR porn. It can be black on whites, asian, or latinas. Gauge her reaction to it. Is she grossed out by it? Turned on? Or like whatever? That should give you an indication on how willing she might be in doing it with a black guy. Hope that helps.
     
  8. eyespy07

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    *What beginner said with what I added.
     
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  9. Okay, no worries, thanks anyway!

    That's a great idea. She has asked me before if I watch porn and I've said rarely. Maybe a good way to get started is to mention it and say that we might see new one or two together under pretense of "seeing what's out there".

    Was pretty single-minded when I thought about using porn to get her interested because I only saw showing her IR-porn right away as an option for some reason.

    I'll think about how I can set this up. Thanks!
     
  10. To others, hit me with more advice if you got some!
     
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  11. eyespy07

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    Sure, no problem. The temptation for us guys is to jump right into the hardcore IR stuff. Not all women respond to that very well. So, you have to go at it slowly. I should know. hehe Though, if your girl is totally cool at watching porn with you, that is a major step in the right direction. BTW, what kind does she like to watch?
     
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  12. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I'm not big into porn, really, because I don't like how women are treated in a lot of it. But I did watch some of DFW Knight's stuff, and it was pretty easy for me to handle.
     
  13. Would be 10 times easier if I could cut to the chase right away, yeah :) But that's not how it works with anything! Haha!

    We've seen a kamasutra-video together which I liked because she's rather well-trained as an ex-gymnast. Also watched some soft-core porno that I found a bit boring to say the least. But she seemed to like it!
     
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  14. eyespy07

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    I've seen some of his movies. It's pretty good. More gf and wife friendly.
     
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  15. That has been one of my main concerns with porn, that she would think it was degrading. Now I know there's some quite extreme stuff out there, but it would be a real shame if she'd think all porn was degrading due to me not handling it well.
     
  16. eyespy07

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    Ex-gymnast huh? Nice. No wonder you want to see her stretched.;)

    That Kama Sutra sounds great especially to set the mood. As for the softcore stuff, I don't go for that. Reminds me of the old days watching "porn" on Cinemax. lol Has she ever watch any time of hardcore porn? You should transition her into that.
     
  17. I googled it and found his/their webpage, but it's not free. Not being cheap or anything, just maybe wanted to get a sneak-peak before I buy anything. You know any free clips out there?
     
  18. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    The stuff I saw was not extreme. I found nothing objectionable about how he treated his bedpartner.
     
  19. Haha :D She can do a thing or two, I can tell you that! Pretty sure she has some "secrets" up her sleeves too, haha :)

    It's great to learn new positions etcetera. Yeah, soft core doesn't do much for me either. Could watch a random modern TV-series and get more out of it!

    She probably has, but not together with me.
     
  20. eyespy07

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    There are LOTS of free IR clips out there man. Check out sites like xhamster.com, redtube.com, etc. Trust me, you just have to search. Those two I just listed have some pretty good free clips that you and her can watch together. All kinds of porn including IR.
     
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