Getting GF interested in at least giving it a shot?

ExceedExpectations said:
Should I get varified or what do you mean? No one can not seriously doubt that I'm not a white guy? Kinda the "lowest" you can get here or how you should put it, haha!

Or you mean that if she's interested and get a couple-account or one of her own, then that account should be verified?
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LOL. Get verified so that other members interested in you know that you are real. We've been having a conversation at length with you, so we know that you are the real deal, Exceed. However, newer members or interested guys may not know that by glancing at your profile. And, if she gets really interested and you do get a couples account, get that verified, too.
 
eyespy07 said:
LOL. Get verified so that other members interested in you know that you are real. We've been having a conversation at length with you, so we know that you are the real deal, Exceed. However, newer members or interested guys may not know that by glancing at your profile. And, if she gets really interested and you do get a couples account, get that verified, too.
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Gotcha! Haha :D
 
ExceedExpectations said:
The problem is though that when I've brought something similar up (threesome) she hasn't shown much interest in it. Didn't seem to get disgusted by it, but didn't seem excited about it either ... We're both our first sex partners if that matters. Been going at it, but still we're not all that experienced since we've only been with each other so far.
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Don't know how long the two of you have been together, but the lack of prior experience on her part will probably mean a longer and more difficult effort in convincing her to go through with it. Also consider your own lack of experience. Do you have any idea how you are going to feel seeing your girl in the arms of another man? What if he is five times as good as you are? Is there a chance you might freak out and want to stop, but she wants to continue? Have you considered the possibility of losing her? These things happen, especially to those who are inexperienced and unprepared.

That said, getting her interested in IR porn is a step in the right direction. Letting her know that the idea of seeing her with a black guy turns you on, then talking about it as a shared fantasy while having sex with her, is another way to get the ball rolling. Finally, surf around and read about other peoples' experiences. Good luck.
 
udomlya said:
Don't know how long the two of you have been together, but the lack of prior experience on her part will probably mean a longer and more difficult effort in convincing her to go through with it. Also consider your own lack of experience. Do you have any idea how you are going to feel seeing your gf in the arms of another man? What if he is five times as good as you are? Is there a chance you might freak out and want to stop, but she wants to continue? Have you considered the possibility of losing her? These things happen, especially to those who are inexperienced and unprepared.

That said, getting her interested in IR porn is a step in the right direction. Letting her know that the idea of her with a black guy turns you on, then talking about it as a shared fantasy while having sex with her, is another way to get the ball rolling. Good luck.
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Great questions and I actually have thought about it.

We've been together for 4 years (I'm not 24 as the profile says, actually 21, gonna get that changed.. She's 20.).

I think I will really enjoy seeing her with a black man. But I can't know for sure yet.

What if he's better? Then he is and I need to continue learning. Can't do much more than that.

There's a possibility that I'll freak out, sure, but I'd say it's rather slim.

If I'm losing her. Well, that would really suck, but then if I lose her I kinda feel that it was meant to happen. If not now then later. And I really hate to hold people back just because I might lose something from them exploring themselfs. I think holding the other one back is a much bigger risk when in relationships than not to.

Great, thanks A LOT for you anwer and even better questions!
 
My wife and I started at pretty much the same age as you guys. I was the only guy she had been with before she met the black guy who became her boyfriend. Their relationship was so intense so fast I very nearly lost her to him. Lucky for me he ended up going to jail for an extended period of time or she wouldve been gone. I say that to say this. The experience is amazing but the danger is real. You habe to ask yourself is the juice worth the squeeze. For me it was and everything worked out. However, if one juror wouldve come back not guilty I have no doubt in my mind I wouldnt be married to her today.
 
mrgreen748 said:
My wife and I started at pretty much the same age as you guys. I was the only guy she had been with before she met the black guy who became her boyfriend. Their relationship was so intense so fast I very nearly lost her to him. Lucky for me he ended up going to jail for an extended period of time or she wouldve been gone. I say that to say this. The experience is amazing but the danger is real. You habe to ask yourself is the juice worth the squeeze. For me it was and everything worked out. However, if one juror wouldve come back not guilty I have no doubt in my mind I wouldnt be married to her today.
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Damn.

I get that it's a risk and all, but I look at it this way: I'd rather try and have us breaking up than to spend my whole life wondering of what could have been.

Must say, seeing my gf with a criminal would be hot! But I think I'll keep that to myself in the start, haha :)
 
ExceedExpectations said:
Great questions and I actually have thought about it.

We've been together for 4 years (I'm not 24 as the profile says, actually 21, gonna get that changed.. She's 20.).

I think I will really enjoy seeing her with a black man. But I can't know for sure yet.

What if he's better? Then he is and I need to continue learning. Can't do much more than that.

There's a possibility that I'll freak out, sure, but I'd say it's rather slim.

If I'm losing her. Well, that would really suck, but then if I lose her I kinda feel that it was meant to happen. If not now then later. And I really hate to hold people back just because I might lose something from them exploring themselfs. I think holding the other one back is a much bigger risk when in relationships than not to.

Great, thanks A LOT for you anwer and even better questions!
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Very mature answer, Exceed. I really hope everything goes well for the both of you. Truly. This can catapult your relationship into a whole another level. A level few couples ever manage to reach.
 
eyespy07 said:
Very mature answer, Exceed. I really hope everything goes well for the both of you. Truly. This can catapult your relationship into a whole another level. A level few couples ever manage to reach.
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Appriciate that! :) Spent a whole lot of time thinking it over.

I hope so. Would be a dream come true for me seeing her with a black man. Hopefully she'll feel the same way!
 
Now, let's say you find a regular guy for her to enjoy. Are you gonna jump in and "tag team" her with the guy? Or just stand back and watch? Will you eventually let her go bareback?
 
eyespy07 said:
Now, let's say you find a regular guy for her to enjoy. Are you gonna jump in and "tag team" her with the guy? Or just stand back and watch? Will you eventually let her go bareback?
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I think I'll just sit back the view. Atleast at first. Then I don't know how it all with progress!

I'm a HUUUGE fan of both bareback and creampie, so yes ;) Haha

Edit: But that's up to her to decide. I'd love it if she wants to though!
 
ExceedExpectations said:
I think I'll just sit back the view. Atleast at first. Then I don't know how it all with progress!

I'm a HUUUGE fan of both bareback and creampie, so yes ;) Haha

Edit: But that's up to her to decide. I'd love it if she wants to though!
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Same here. I loves bareback and creampies, too!:D
 
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