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Suzie123

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So this has gone 0-100 real quick. A few weeks ago I’d never really thought about black guys like this and now I’m close to making plans.

I’m just asking advise for the real people here that have been in my situation. I’m 23, married with a kid so have a lot to lose but I can’t get this out of my head lol. I know this is the internet and lots of people here are just living a keyboard fantasy but interested on hearing from the people that have been in my situation.
 
Only way her desires grow if guys are constantly hitting her up this world is full of dogs who don’t care about anyones marriage only getting a quick nut lol
 
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We humans have lots of fantasies, I have a fantasy to travel araund the world, but I dont know if I will travel around the world... but who know what will be in the future? same abaut BBC, its a fantasy, hot fantasy... but if you are not ready for it, leave it as a fantasy. Play with it as a fantasy... watch ir porn, use black dildo and make other stuf, have fun :)
 
We humans have lots of fantasies, I have a fantasy to travel araund the world, but I dont know if I will travel around the world... but who know what will be in the future? same abaut BBC, its a fantasy, hot fantasy... but if you are not ready for it, leave it as a fantasy. Play with it as a fantasy... watch ir porn, use black dildo and make other stuf, have fun :)
Great response
 
We humans have lots of fantasies, I have a fantasy to travel araund the world, but I dont know if I will travel around the world... but who know what will be in the future? same abaut BBC, its a fantasy, hot fantasy... but if you are not ready for it, leave it as a fantasy. Play with it as a fantasy... watch ir porn, use black dildo and make other stuf, have fun :)
I did think that's all it was, but I think joining this site was a big mistake haha. It has grown very quickly and had a couple of offers which is actually very close to home and almost too tempting.
 
So this has gone 0-100 real quick. A few weeks ago I’d never really thought about black guys like this and now I’m close to making plans.

I’m just asking advise for the real people here that have been in my situation. I’m 23, married with a kid so have a lot to lose but I can’t get this out of my head lol. I know this is the internet and lots of people here are just living a keyboard fantasy but interested on hearing from the people that have been in my situation.

Anybody you know? that wouldn't be good.

If you did it the best thing would be:
out of town, a motel,
the guy doesn't know you,
don't give any personal info, etc.
 
I did think that's all it was, but I think joining this site was a big mistake haha. It has grown very quickly and had a couple of offers which is actually very close to home and almost too tempting.
Tread lightly. But if the Black male you meet up with turns out to awaken parts of you sexually that you didn't know existed & if he is charming and financially well off....You will want more.
This has to be considered. I am not here to judge you for I have done what you have considered and although I don't step outside my marriage very often (physically).... I still get that craving at least once a year to make good memories with a White woman or Latina.

Tread lightly.
 
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Tread lightly. But if the Black male you meet up with turns out to awaken parts of you sexually that you didn't know existed & he is charming and financially well off....You will want more.
This has to be considered. I am not here to judge you for I have done what you have considered and although I don't step outside my marriage very often (physically).... I still get that craving at least once a year to make good memories with a White woman or Latina.

Tread lightly.
This is what I was saying above i agree with you
 
Blackfantasy has given some excellent advice.

Taking this from fantasy to reality should be done with a clear head, are you willing to lose your husband, threaten your family life over a sexual fetish? In reality not every black man is going to ”ruin you for white men”, keep in mind that it is a sexual fetish, you know, fantasy.

And lastly keep in mind that whoever you meet might not go into this with the same mindset you are, swinging and cheating is very different, and whoever you meet might want to meet up more, might catch feelings etc.

If I where you I would instead try to open up to the hubby, you might be surprised how much it can improve your sexual life together if you just manage to be more open to one another.
 
So this has gone 0-100 real quick. A few weeks ago I’d never really thought about black guys like this and now I’m close to making plans.

I’m just asking advise for the real people here that have been in my situation. I’m 23, married with a kid so have a lot to lose but I can’t get this out of my head lol. I know this is the internet and lots of people here are just living a keyboard fantasy but interested on hearing from the people that have been in my situation.


Take a breath and think then do it again if you are still wanting it then speak to him I’ve done the exact same and now have very very discreet permission seemed to be better to have me like this than not at all.., for various reasons happy to chat to try to help a bit x
 
First question do you love your husband I know it might sound like a stupid question but some married couples do not love each other. Second question depending on how you answer the first if you love your husband try communicating your feelings and Fantasies with him. he might want to fulfill your fantasies no matter what they are some things he might not be okay with but you don't know until you ask if the answer to the first question was no then you need to think about your relationship and where it's going because once you have a kid your first priority not what you want. Yes this lifestyle can be really fun or it can destroy your marriage depending on how you go about it for me and my wife we discussed it first fantasized about it and our bedroom for a few years before we even decided to bring anybody else in we set boundaries and rules and and after all that was set then we acted on her fantasies good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for if you have any more questions my wife would love to answer more questions for you in private message s anytime
 
Goodluck Suzie, hopefully this isnt the end of your fantasies, rather its the start of some amazing fantasies and playtime with your hubby. Just keep an open mind and dont jump into the deep end the first time you bring it up to him, some ideas take a little getting used to at first.
 
First question do you love your husband I know it might sound like a stupid question but some married couples do not love each other. Second question depending on how you answer the first if you love your husband try communicating your feelings and Fantasies with him. he might want to fulfill your fantasies no matter what they are some things he might not be okay with but you don't know until you ask if the answer to the first question was no then you need to think about your relationship and where it's going because once you have a kid your first priority not what you want. Yes this lifestyle can be really fun or it can destroy your marriage depending on how you go about it for me and my wife we discussed it first fantasized about it and our bedroom for a few years before we even decided to bring anybody else in we set boundaries and rules and and after all that was set then we acted on her fantasies good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for if you have any more questions my wife would love to answer more questions for you in private message s anytime
 
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