Don't understand why couples or women say they need or want BBC and they are in your area and don't

we have loads round where we live and she has had loads them, mostly Asian pakisatin and indian, very rare she finds a huge one, in fact the biggest she has is a scots lad ginger hair and her cousins boss, we are going to America again in july, with out a shadow of doubt some biggest she has had were American or afro/Caribbean guys on holiday, the Asian and Pakistani don't tend to be big
 
Think it's wiser to have meet up with somebody out of town. Once the action's over, it helps to avoid any potential future complications. Despite the convenience of being local, there's risk of an awkward moment or somebody not accepting when it's over.
 
Because we're picky and want a mental connection as well
Exactly.

"I am local and have a BBC let's hook up" is bare bones.

Connection, sensuality, other common interests give it some meat.

When the profile is empty save for a profile picture of an uncommonly large appearing male appendage, and the only message one can put together is "I am in (nearest big city)"... not much to connect to, unless ALL one wants is to stretch down on a BIG BBC at any cost, with no other desire.

I am sure there is someone who is looking for exactly the connectionless stretching you are offering, but it isn't us, unless you happen to be visiting a gloryhole or theater when we are feeling that kind of raunchy (once in 10 years so far).

Good luck to you.
 
So, my GF would like to meet with a decent BBC but she does have standards. She wants safe, sane, discrete and clean. She wants a guy that understands its a sexual relationship, not going to lead to more. She is not interested in someone who is married or dating but their woman is unaware or does not support what he is doing.

So, put up a more detailed profile. Don't message people and send a dick pic. Actually engage in conversation and see if what you want is what she wants. Don't expect that a message today means a hook up tomorrow.

Do all of that and you will likely find someone who is interested in you.........
 
Most women don't really know what they want. As for the guys.... It's all about porn for them

I don't think that is true. You certainly have immature women, and women who like to talk about things that will never act on them. You also have men that go the range from having no respect for the woman and no respect for themselves to those who are very much interested in helping her live out what has been a fantasy.

Simply put, as wide a range of interests as you have on this site is also as wide a range of people. Some come here and seem to have an issue with all sorts of terms and want to scare people off because of all of the things that can go wrong. Others seem to want to suggest the other extreme, that white women all exist to serve the sexual needs and desires of the black men that wish to have them.

In the middle are those who think things through, and make a choice. Be the woman single or not, she is considering if she is willing to have sex with someone, and if she would like that man to be a black man. She realizes all the sayings, and is looking more at the sex act and her desire to experience it. If she has a partner that is male, he may wish to have her feel unlimited in her sexual enjoyment much like she wants him to feel the same way. Perhaps she has a "fetish" that she wants to try out and it involves sex that is not based on a loving relationship but instead about trying out a bit of a "slutty" side.

So, a smart man on here would try and see if he matches the woman. It's possible that they share the same interests, and its possible they do not. While I get that people wish to remain protected online, being able to carry on a conversation is important as well as being able to show each other what you look like. Be it a photo, a skype chat, whatever. Most women, even those who are extremely open with their sexuality, still want to have a bit of an attraction to the guy. Obviously most guys want to be able to look at the woman and find her attractive also. Some sort of chemistry of the mind, even if only for a few hours......
 
I don't think that is true. You certainly have immature women, and women who like to talk about things that will never act on them. You also have men that go the range from having no respect for the woman and no respect for themselves to those who are very much interested in helping her live out what has been a fantasy.

Simply put, as wide a range of interests as you have on this site is also as wide a range of people. Some come here and seem to have an issue with all sorts of terms and want to scare people off because of all of the things that can go wrong. Others seem to want to suggest the other extreme, that white women all exist to serve the sexual needs and desires of the black men that wish to have them.

In the middle are those who think things through, and make a choice. Be the woman single or not, she is considering if she is willing to have sex with someone, and if she would like that man to be a black man. She realizes all the sayings, and is looking more at the sex act and her desire to experience it. If she has a partner that is male, he may wish to have her feel unlimited in her sexual enjoyment much like she wants him to feel the same way. Perhaps she has a "fetish" that she wants to try out and it involves sex that is not based on a loving relationship but instead about trying out a bit of a "slutty" side.

So, a smart man on here would try and see if he matches the woman. It's possible that they share the same interests, and its possible they do not. While I get that people wish to remain protected online, being able to carry on a conversation is important as well as being able to show each other what you look like. Be it a photo, a skype chat, whatever. Most women, even those who are extremely open with their sexuality, still want to have a bit of an attraction to the guy. Obviously most guys want to be able to look at the woman and find her attractive also. Some sort of chemistry of the mind, even if only for a few hours......

I will stick to my original statement. Most women don't know what they want.
What they SAY they want, and what they end up doing...a lot of times is two TOTALLY different things.
 
I will stick to my original statement. Most women don't know what they want.
What they SAY they want, and what they end up doing...a lot of times is two TOTALLY different things.

I'd say some women want to live in a fantasy world with no real desire to move from the fantasy to reality.

Other women are quite willing to take their fantasy and make it real. They want certain things though.

My girlfriend is not interested in guys that expect to screw immediately. Some women may be however.

My girlfriend would rather be with a man that is proven to be clear of all STD's. She would like to be able to have a man without condoms. Some women may not care.

Same goes with someone who is intelligent. Not a rocket scientist, but someone who can talk in a way that is not degrading and may even prove they know how to have a conversation that is not about her tits, her pussy, etc.

You have all kinds of women. You have all kinds of men also. Because of that, its pretty important that you actually share some of the same interests.
 
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