My wife says it has to be more about the prize and not solely the size that really matters. Naturally I asked her to explain, so here's her response.
I quote:
"When we got engaged you bought me a beautiful diamond! Did you ever think what my reaction would had been if that diamond hadn't been mounted in a beautiful band of gold? There's not a female on earth who wouldn't think you were some sort of a nut if you did that! This beautiful diamond of mine mounted on band of gold completes the total package. Likewise, all those years while you were bringing up that stuff about you wanting to see me take on a big black cock! Well, yes! I often got turned on by that but never to the point that I would ever contemplate doing anything about it though. I just couldn't get past an image of a BBC laying there between my legs, squirming about all by itself! I just couldn't imagine a face or body on it! Until you introduced me to your friend, Edwin that is.
I knew his manhood was big, not just because you told me about it, but also because I felt it firstly when he pressed it up against me on the dance floor that night, secondly, when my hand, do you want me to be dishonest and say ACCIDENTLY, found its way to his crotch to verify what I had earlier felt pressing against me, was the real thing! It was! I knew then I wanted Edwin in me! He was, like my diamond engagement ring, a total package! He was tall, he is handsome, he is smart, he is a gentleman, he's everything in one total package! The fact that his manhood is truly massive, and he is black, those were bonuses, like the great dinner we had that night before you gave me my diamond. It all comes together to make a great moment in time! Size, in an of itself, can add to the value of the total experience, but without being part of a total package, can be very disappointing."