Does it hurt?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by blondehotwife, Apr 5, 2015.

  1. blondehotwife

    blondehotwife Active Member

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    This will be my first BBC experience and the only thing I have to go off is when I was 18 I had sex with a well endowed man and I just remember it hurting. Of course this was before I knew how to control or obtain my orgasm.
     
  2. Short-dog

    Short-dog Well-Known Member

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    In a good way!!!
     
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  3. blondehotwife

    blondehotwife Active Member

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    To say the least I'm nervous but excited. Just not sure what to expect and wanted some input
     
  4. xpatblack

    xpatblack Active Member

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    not if your bull makes sure u r well lubricated first
    u will stretch
     
  5. Suzyfox

    Suzyfox Guest

    Use plenty of lube Hun,and the pleasure soon out weights the pain,don't be nervous just relax and go with the flow,and believe me u will flow
     
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  6. latinocouple817

    latinocouple817 Active Member

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    No just try and relax , if you drink have a little drink before to calm your nerves, it will be worth it lol ;)
     
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  7. Lanie4BBC

    Lanie4BBC Well-Known Member

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    A Bull who knows what he is doing will get you good and ready and well lubricated...and position you just right. He should also take it slow...and maybe not any further than you are really ready for....

    Good Luck!



    :blackheart: Lanie

    p.s. And if he doesn't seem to know what he's doing...use lube...get in a position where your hips are rotated forward and your belly is either raised (like by a pillow) if you're on your back, or dropped if you're down doggie on all fours...and don't hesitate to tell him, or take a hand or two and push back, if he's going too far too fast....
     
  8. blondehotwife

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    Thank you ladies! I'm not to worried about the girth but the length. I love the thickness.
     
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  9. Lanie4BBC

    Lanie4BBC Well-Known Member

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    That takes some getting used to, indeed...and is something that tricks like the positioning of the hips especially help with....

    Once again, I'm convinced that we're all a bit different, and some of us can never take quite that much, and a few of us not so much at all. I have now had the pleasure and opportunity to have been around ten girls taking their first BBC, and we have had one who,though eager and totally into it, just wasn't going to be able to take more than about half of him, probably due to a combination of girth and length, and several others who seemed like they would come close but never really quite get balls-deep with a real BBC...unlike what you see in most of the porn (though if you look at my comments, including about one of the Blacked movies, there are some vids that show the reality of girls who can't take it all).

    I'd counsel patience...and acceptance....



    :blackheart: Lanie
     
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  10. blondehotwife

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    Thank you Lanie! That really helps to ease some of the anxiety. I just need to find the right one now which is a whole other obstacle lol.
     
  11. Lanie4BBC

    Lanie4BBC Well-Known Member

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    Glad to help! :)

    I don't know if I've written about it elsewhere here, but on threads about dildos I've posted that I think anal is one legitimate use of a BBC dildo to practice and get comfortable with it...I would still stay with more average thickness - around 1-1/2 inches - but go long, like 8 inches or over (a double dong can even work well for that) to get used to the depth, which I found the trickiest part, there is kind of a turn inside me just past the length of an average cock that a real BBC will hit and you need to get used to relaxing, positioning your hips just right (rolled back, the reverse of what you want to do for vaginal) and letting the cock slide past and go deep.... Otherwise, I've decided that use of a BBC dildo is cheating - yourself, and your Bulls - and it's better to wait and have a real BBC be the first to stretch and plumb you, and then to stay as tight as possible for the Bulls you're seeing....


    :blackheart: Lanie