Some very astute and accurate observations in your post.
It's like anything, the more people see others indulging their desires in a particular way, the less afraid they are to indulge their own desires in the same way.
With the power structure in society shifting, there are fewer obstacles than ever before getting in the way of white women dating black men. Originally, misogynist and racist attitudes imposed by the dominant members of the family structure contributed to white womens fear of exploring their sexuality properly. As time passed and some of the more extreme aspects of racism and misogyny subsided, white women were still left with a sense of anxiety I think. The older attitudes persist in some places but in a much more subtle way, and are much more frowned upon when recognized nowadays thankfully. The wider publicity of interracial relationships in porn and entertainment is really helping to clear up the last of those anxieties white women still had I feel. More white guys like myself than ever before are also learning to face facts about their own sexual shortcomings and inability to satisfy women properly. I definitely feel we are turning a major corner right now.
