Does anyone else feel the lifestyle has caught on rapidly the last few years?

[VirginBetaMale]

For me it all started off with fantasy and fetish. After a particular experience I started watching IR and Femdom porn before I started craving the lifestyle for real.

I definitely feel that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people. More people are seeing it as much more than just fantasy now than ever before. The dynamics that belonged to some far out black superiority conditioning videos and in erotic stories have made their way much more into the mainstream I feel. I'm seeing so much more IR porn on a lot of sites now, and seeing so many women declaring there love and desire for black men.

I really feel things are changing, and it's not just confined to the minds of online fetishists. I really am encouraged by what I see. Much more work needs to be done in helping more white women consider broadening their sexual horizons of course. There is also a lot more work that needs to be done in helping wake up a few overly proud white hubbies to the fact that they have little to be proud of and that their partner deserves to try new things, but in spite of that, I really feel things are gaining traction in the right direction.

What do you good people think?

 

[evolved]

Definitely, Ive been gently introducing my friends to the idea of this lifestyle and talking to them about it and they seem much more open to it than i would have guessed and than i probably was at the start. I think it is becoming more and more mainstream and something that people talk about more and I love it

 

[Husbofbbw]

Definitely, Ive been gently introducing my friends to the idea of this lifestyle and talking to them about it and they seem much more open to it than i would have guessed and than i probably was at the start. I think it is becoming more and more mainstream and something that people talk about more and I love it

Mind explaining how you discuss it with your friends?

 

[VirginBetaMale]

Definitely, Ive been gently introducing my friends to the idea of this lifestyle and talking to them about it and they seem much more open to it than i would have guessed and than i probably was at the start. I think it is becoming more and more mainstream and something that people talk about more and I love it

I'm definitely getting the same feeling at the moment. Like you I'm completely loving the shift too.

 

[evolved]

Mind explaining how you discuss it with your friends?

Just when we are chatting we speak about fucking black men alot, I havent come clean with them about how i cuck my husband yet but they must have some idea because i see my bull like 5 days a week and they have seen us together alot of times now

 

[VirginBetaMale]

Just when we are chatting we speak about fucking black men alot, I havent come clean with them about how i cuck my husband yet but they must have some idea because i see my bull like 5 days a week and they have seen us together alot of times now

I've spoken to quite a few women online who seem to have similar conversations with their friends. I was surprised at first when they told me how candid they were with each other about their sex life. I really get the sense a lot of women are really supportive too as opposed to just joking about it. It's all much more out in the open now than ever.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

There are lots of threads out there along these lines... societal change?... and whatever. But i wonder... how can that even be important? If you have a woman/guy as a partner who gets turned-on by the same things as you, why would it even matter if, say 100, or 100,000 other people would be turned on by approximately the same things? Are you looking for affirmation? Do you need someone to legitimate your own desires? - just a question, because i don't get it.

 

[VirginBetaMale]

There are lots of threads out there along these lines... societal change?... and whatever. But i wonder... how can that even be important? If you have a woman/guy as a partner who gets turned-on by the same things as you, why would it even matter if, say 100, or 100,000 other people would be turned on by approximately the same things? Are you looking for affirmation? Do you need someone to legitimate your own desires? - just a question, because i don't get it.

I think the change is extremely important. Interracial relationships were outlawed at one time, and in many families and communities it's been a big taboo ever since. Seeing women taking the bull by the horns (Slight pun intended) and running with it is a big change I would say. The more it happens, the more barriers will be broken down. The whole dynamic changes. It has a knock on effect on everything. White guys try harder if they know they can't shame white women into being with them for better or worse. Women have more choice and are free from guilt completely in their sex life. I'm not saying all white guys are one way or another, but there's no denying the toxic attitudes of old have remained in many families, if only subconsciously. The idea of shaming white women for dating black guys never stopped, but I truly feel that is changing now and the shame imposed by society is losing it's grip over women. It opens the door to so much, including a wider acceptance of the cuckold lifestyle.

Also, take me for instance. I woke up to the lifestyle when I was quite young, I've been virgin and pussy-free ever since. I want what's best for women and I know I'm not it, at least not in the sexual sense. I'm happy to confess that here, but I know if I were to confess these feelings to the people around me I'd almost certainly be shamed and perhaps disowned, and for what? for having never been intimate with a woman, for wanting what's best for her and for maybe one day being with a woman who I believe should have whatever she wants. Even here there's maybe a few who'd shame me for that.

So in closing, yes, I think it's a good thing that it catches on, because it represents much more than mere fetish for men and women everywhere. It represents the freedom to choose sexual partners without guilt or shame. Bringing together different races and communities, and knocking those who would drive a wedge between people and ideas off their perches.

 

[yngnkky]

For me it all started off with fantasy and fetish. After a particular experience I started watching IR and Femdom porn before I started craving the lifestyle for real.

I definitely feel that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people. More people are seeing it as much more than just fantasy now than ever before. The dynamics that belonged to some far out black superiority conditioning videos and in erotic stories have made their way much more into the mainstream I feel. I'm seeing so much more IR porn on a lot of sites now, and seeing so many women declaring there love and desire for black men.

I really feel things are changing, and it's not just confined to the minds of online fetishists. I really am encouraged by what I see. Much more work needs to be done in helping more white women consider broadening their sexual horizons of course. There is also a lot more work that needs to be done in helping wake up a few overly proud white hubbies to the fact that they have little to be proud of and that their partner deserves to try new things, but in spite of that, I really feel things are gaining traction in the right direction.

What do you good people think?

For us YES

 

[VirginBetaMale]

For us YES

 

[VirginBetaMale]

One other thing I've noticed is that it's clearly not just white women and cuck white guys who are getting more and more into the lifestyle. Even more encouragingly, I see that a lot more black guys are becoming aware of white women's needs and frustrations too. As a consequence, more and more black guys appear to see the lifestyle as a genuine long-term outlet for their sexual needs too these days.

I'd be very interested to hear what black guys think about the way the lifestyle in progressing.

 

[dusty winter]

I agree that interracial cuckolding is gaining in popularity. I feel like I keep seeing more and more sly references to cuckolding in media and entertainment where the bull is usually black.

Now interracial porn may have fried my brain, but I am one of those online fetishists who believe in the sexual superiority of black men.
So I think this is an exciting development simply because more IR cuckolding means more sexual pleasure for women.

And more pleasure in the world is always a good thing.

 

[VirginBetaMale]

I agree that interracial cuckolding is gaining in popularity. I feel like I keep seeing more and more sly references to cuckolding in media and entertainment where the bull is usually black.

Now interracial porn may have fried my brain, but I am one of those online fetishists who believe in the sexual superiority of black men.
So I think this is an exciting development simply because more IR cuckolding means more sexual pleasure for women.

And more pleasure in the world is always a good thing.

I've noticed that too. I saw an interview online somewhere where two couples were discussing interracial relationships. A strong confident black guy was conducting the interview and the white guy who was there with a black girl barely said anything. The white girl kept referring to her black partner as a "king". So yes, I think the media is helping bring the lifestyle more into the mainstream and I for one welcome it with open arms.

Like you, I also believe the developments in black and female liberation are something to be celebrated, especially by guys like us who are awake to our own sexual inadequacy.

 

[allymanding]

Women are getting smarter and braver. As we reach out more for what we want and NEED, black dominance of us sexually is just a natural development.

 

[demalejpo]

It’s certainly true in our neighborhood. Wives got to talking about their experiences with a Black neighbor and curiosity got the better of some others. My wife joined the club and her best friend is on the verge.

 

[PawgCelia223]

For me it all started off with fantasy and fetish. After a particular experience I started watching IR and Femdom porn before I started craving the lifestyle for real.

I definitely feel that in the last four or five years the lifestyle and all it's wonderful kinky intricacies has become much more of a genuine craving and even a reality for many people. More people are seeing it as much more than just fantasy now than ever before. The dynamics that belonged to some far out black superiority conditioning videos and in erotic stories have made their way much more into the mainstream I feel. I'm seeing so much more IR porn on a lot of sites now, and seeing so many women declaring there love and desire for black men.

I really feel things are changing, and it's not just confined to the minds of online fetishists. I really am encouraged by what I see. Much more work needs to be done in helping more white women consider broadening their sexual horizons of course. There is also a lot more work that needs to be done in helping wake up a few overly proud white hubbies to the fact that they have little to be proud of and that their partner deserves to try new things, but in spite of that, I really feel things are gaining traction in the right direction.

What do you good people think?

I know you're probably thinking specifically of the ir hotwife/cuckold dynamic (which I'm all in favor of consenting adults exploring, although it's not personally relevant to me) but more broadly with regard to the IR Movement the awareness of it which permeates into both mainstream entertainment and society, as well as all genres of erotica and porn, makes it an omnipresent background in our culture, whether people hop on board or not.

It was never really that hard to just be candid about dating Black boys. But I think it's correct that the 'background noise' has never been more loud or steady. Just five years ago a bit of cajoling friends about 'you're not racist, are you?' was part of the teasing arsenal to help armtwist them to agree to a little Black blind date. Now it's almost like a stern look or exasperated sigh is enough to convey the same effect. Between BLM consciousness raising about the need for active anti-racism on the one hand, and the erotic consciousness for which BLACKED is the spearhead, you just dont have to do as much explaining or convincing. Now it's more like declaring a team preference--"I'm Team Black Boys. Why aren't you?" It's increasingly difficult, even anxiety-inducing for girls who are sitting it out, not giving a Black guy a try, and expecting the convo to drop without becoming awkward for them, instead of me. Now, when I evangelize a friend into going out with a Black guy, I feel like I've got the whip hand and I don't have to let it drop if she squirms a little. Resistance is more difficult, more socially shaming for them. And they've already been prepped by pop culture into seeing this possibility for them as real.

 

[cuckfun773]

I know you're probably thinking specifically of the ir hotwife/cuckold dynamic (which I'm all in favor of consenting adults exploring, although it's not personally relevant to me) but more broadly with regard to the IR Movement the awareness of it which permeates into both mainstream entertainment and society, as well as all genres of erotica and porn, makes it an omnipresent background in our culture, whether people hop on board or not.

It was never really that hard to just be candid about dating Black boys. But I think it's correct that the 'background noise' has never been more loud or steady. Just five years ago a bit of cajoling friends about 'you're not racist, are you?' was part of the teasing arsenal to help armtwist them to agree to a little Black blind date. Now it's almost like a stern look or exasperated sigh is enough to convey the same effect. Between BLM consciousness raising about the need for active anti-racism on the one hand, and the erotic consciousness for which BLACKED is the spearhead, you just dont have to do as much explaining or convincing. Now it's more like declaring a team preference--"I'm Team Black Boys. Why aren't you?" It's increasingly difficult, even anxiety-inducing for girls who are sitting it out, not giving a Black guy a try, and expecting the convo to drop without becoming awkward for them, instead of me. Now, when I evangelize a friend into going out with a Black guy, I feel like I've got the whip hand and I don't have to let it drop if she squirms a little. Resistance is more difficult, more socially shaming for them. And they've already been prepped by pop culture into seeing this possibility for them as real.

well stated Celia. bravo Madame, no doubt all you say is true.

 

[rustyshackleford]

I know you're probably thinking specifically of the ir hotwife/cuckold dynamic (which I'm all in favor of consenting adults exploring, although it's not personally relevant to me) but more broadly with regard to the IR Movement the awareness of it which permeates into both mainstream entertainment and society, as well as all genres of erotica and porn, makes it an omnipresent background in our culture, whether people hop on board or not.

It was never really that hard to just be candid about dating Black boys. But I think it's correct that the 'background noise' has never been more loud or steady. Just five years ago a bit of cajoling friends about 'you're not racist, are you?' was part of the teasing arsenal to help armtwist them to agree to a little Black blind date. Now it's almost like a stern look or exasperated sigh is enough to convey the same effect. Between BLM consciousness raising about the need for active anti-racism on the one hand, and the erotic consciousness for which BLACKED is the spearhead, you just dont have to do as much explaining or convincing. Now it's more like declaring a team preference--"I'm Team Black Boys. Why aren't you?" It's increasingly difficult, even anxiety-inducing for girls who are sitting it out, not giving a Black guy a try, and expecting the convo to drop without becoming awkward for them, instead of me. Now, when I evangelize a friend into going out with a Black guy, I feel like I've got the whip hand and I don't have to let it drop if she squirms a little. Resistance is more difficult, more socially shaming for them. And they've already been prepped by pop culture into seeing this possibility for them as real.

True and just imagine how it's gonna be 10 or 20 years from now

 

[jsoros76]

I know you're probably thinking specifically of the ir hotwife/cuckold dynamic (which I'm all in favor of consenting adults exploring, although it's not personally relevant to me) but more broadly with regard to the IR Movement the awareness of it which permeates into both mainstream entertainment and society, as well as all genres of erotica and porn, makes it an omnipresent background in our culture, whether people hop on board or not.

It was never really that hard to just be candid about dating Black boys. But I think it's correct that the 'background noise' has never been more loud or steady. Just five years ago a bit of cajoling friends about 'you're not racist, are you?' was part of the teasing arsenal to help armtwist them to agree to a little Black blind date. Now it's almost like a stern look or exasperated sigh is enough to convey the same effect. Between BLM consciousness raising about the need for active anti-racism on the one hand, and the erotic consciousness for which BLACKED is the spearhead, you just dont have to do as much explaining or convincing. Now it's more like declaring a team preference--"I'm Team Black Boys. Why aren't you?" It's increasingly difficult, even anxiety-inducing for girls who are sitting it out, not giving a Black guy a try, and expecting the convo to drop without becoming awkward for them, instead of me. Now, when I evangelize a friend into going out with a Black guy, I feel like I've got the whip hand and I don't have to let it drop if she squirms a little. Resistance is more difficult, more socially shaming for them. And they've already been prepped by pop culture into seeing this possibility for them as real.

That's an excellent assessment and I can tell you my 5 ex gf's would attest to the fact that that their upper middle class social circles were welcoming to them bringing bulls into their social events. Several told me they were just taken in by the dominance of their bbcs and that all the women in their little circles sensed it. The other dynamic is that there really are a growing number of whiteboys who lust after this dynamic and want to just play a subservient role. I know it must sound odd but its true and I believe its becoming more widespread as the black male gains more status in our society.

 

[Thrillmonger3X]

I’m noticing more white women dating gay white guys who let them bang other dudes on the side. Not sure if its all formal with the whole “lifestyle” titles.