You know, speaking as a woman, and in my own opinion, allowing a man (BBC) inside her body is much more intimate than sucking on him. From my perspective, he is penetrating you and subsequently inseminating you. To me, it's the most intimate thing a woman can experience.
I am NOT suggesting that men shouldn't enjoy watching oral sex, I'm just providing a perspective from my point of view.
yes You're right and i apologize at least to the extent i should. i believe the opinions you expressed were somewhere in the back of my mind but being a horny white boy, it stayed back there and my sexual thoughts are what came out. for future posts, i'll try to keep what you said in mind. sorry again