I'm not trying to judge anyone but in my opinion that's almost like asking "who likes accepting stolen property"!
Don't get me wrong I like a good deal but I love a clean conscious better! I have had many opportunities over the years in the lifestyle to creep behind the backs of plenty of hubby's but to me it too much like stealing or accepting something stolen and I am just not that guy.
I will say this I couldn't tell you if I have ever been played though. I have met numerous women over the years who said that they were in the lifestyle who did all the chatting and met me in private and I fucked them senseless and sent them home full and dripping wondering later if they really had their husbands permission!
I will blow your mind and I will blow your back out but I will do with hubby's permission and that's my mission!