Discreet signals

[nomad2022]

I’ve been looking into the hotwife lifestyle for awhile now. I’ve had a couple of encounters that were awesome. I have randomly met couples at bars as well as the casino that approached me. However, when I’m at work there are subtle signs but I often think that I’m taking it the wrong way. Can a hotwife give me some pointers on some common signals that they have sent to a coworker? I don’t want to make a fool out of myself but then again I often leave a conversation thinking “ Did she just make a pass at me”?