So I guess my question is I'm not asking when the first time your wife fucked another guy I'm asking about a total transformation into a cuckold so I'll share my story for any that want to read it.
Me and the wife net and got married later in life I was 32 and she was 28 she had had a previous marriage. So I would say for the most part we were both pretty wild in our twenties I know that I was and was a wife banger in my own right. If you were to meet me out in public like at a ball game or something like that we were to talk you would not pick me is a guy who lets black guys run through his wife like the Amazon runs through South America.
I never really asked my wife much about her past before me cuz it really didn't interest me that much she worked as a waitress and a bartender. And just said her first marriage just didn't work out because they had differences and I left it at that. Fast forward a couple years of marriage and we decide to get into swinging. It started out that we played with other couples other white couples we would do swaps every now and again we would do a threesome with either a male or a female but they were always White.
Well one time we were at a swingers take over of a hotel as I've posted in another thread anyway long story short my wife ended up getting railed by this huge well hung black guy. Didn't know really how to handle it we talked about it afterwards and I was okay with it well she asked if she could see him again I said okay yeah he seemed like a cool dude. Then it was hey hun I met another black guy on the swinger site hey hun there's this other black guy that's wanting to talk to me are you okay with that and I will still have my fun from time to time and we were still doing couple stuff so I was like yeah sure babe have fun that's why we got into the lifestyle. Anyway as time went on it seemed like we did less and less couple stuff she always came up with an excuse I don't mess with her husband he's not very good in bed he's kind of a dork but hey hun you can go ahead and mess around with his wife if you want. All the while she continued to see more and more single black men to the point where quite honestly I had lost count. So now 15 years later of being in the lifestyle and being swingers I woke up one day and realized that in the last 8 years outside of me my life had not slept with a white guy. She was full on exclusively black cock only. It just dawned on me I didn't realize how slow study and thought out of a transformation it was I'm pretty sure on her part.
Anyway what we got me thinking about it is about a month ago I was talking to her old best friend from back in the day. We a ******* too much wine and we're just shooting the ******* and we started talking about my wife before me before we were married. She went on to tell me that the reason that my wife's first marriage failed was because her husband kept catching her cheating on him with black guys he forgave her the first two times he caught her but the third time he ended it. And my best friend just laughed and said well he didn't know about the other 30 times that she did it. So I guess what I'm getting at is how did we end up here LOL I never got into the lifestyle thinking that it would end up like this. Me and my wife are still married we have a great relationship I still bang plenty of pussy but as far as swinging is a couple it pretty much never fucking happens she dates black guys. So I guess as I hear more stuff and I look back and really start thinking about how things progressed if this was all part of her master plan and if somehow she knew this going in from the first time that she came home and I mentioned going to a swingers club she jumped all over it any thoughts on that just curious?
Me and the wife net and got married later in life I was 32 and she was 28 she had had a previous marriage. So I would say for the most part we were both pretty wild in our twenties I know that I was and was a wife banger in my own right. If you were to meet me out in public like at a ball game or something like that we were to talk you would not pick me is a guy who lets black guys run through his wife like the Amazon runs through South America.
I never really asked my wife much about her past before me cuz it really didn't interest me that much she worked as a waitress and a bartender. And just said her first marriage just didn't work out because they had differences and I left it at that. Fast forward a couple years of marriage and we decide to get into swinging. It started out that we played with other couples other white couples we would do swaps every now and again we would do a threesome with either a male or a female but they were always White.
Well one time we were at a swingers take over of a hotel as I've posted in another thread anyway long story short my wife ended up getting railed by this huge well hung black guy. Didn't know really how to handle it we talked about it afterwards and I was okay with it well she asked if she could see him again I said okay yeah he seemed like a cool dude. Then it was hey hun I met another black guy on the swinger site hey hun there's this other black guy that's wanting to talk to me are you okay with that and I will still have my fun from time to time and we were still doing couple stuff so I was like yeah sure babe have fun that's why we got into the lifestyle. Anyway as time went on it seemed like we did less and less couple stuff she always came up with an excuse I don't mess with her husband he's not very good in bed he's kind of a dork but hey hun you can go ahead and mess around with his wife if you want. All the while she continued to see more and more single black men to the point where quite honestly I had lost count. So now 15 years later of being in the lifestyle and being swingers I woke up one day and realized that in the last 8 years outside of me my life had not slept with a white guy. She was full on exclusively black cock only. It just dawned on me I didn't realize how slow study and thought out of a transformation it was I'm pretty sure on her part.
Anyway what we got me thinking about it is about a month ago I was talking to her old best friend from back in the day. We a ******* too much wine and we're just shooting the ******* and we started talking about my wife before me before we were married. She went on to tell me that the reason that my wife's first marriage failed was because her husband kept catching her cheating on him with black guys he forgave her the first two times he caught her but the third time he ended it. And my best friend just laughed and said well he didn't know about the other 30 times that she did it. So I guess what I'm getting at is how did we end up here LOL I never got into the lifestyle thinking that it would end up like this. Me and my wife are still married we have a great relationship I still bang plenty of pussy but as far as swinging is a couple it pretty much never fucking happens she dates black guys. So I guess as I hear more stuff and I look back and really start thinking about how things progressed if this was all part of her master plan and if somehow she knew this going in from the first time that she came home and I mentioned going to a swingers club she jumped all over it any thoughts on that just curious?