My wife and I have been together for ten years and married for seven. She's Asian, very attractive, and gets hit on a lot. Shortly after we got together, she was having trysts and affairs. We discussed it, and I agreed to let her have her freedom with the understanding that she be discreet, no friends of mine or co-workers of hers or mine. About a year ago she got a new manager, African American, married, and a ladies man reputation. I met the guy at last year's Christmas party, and he seemed very nice. I could tell my wife was attracted to him by the way she looked at him and clung to him during a slow dance. Not long after the party, he moved away, and my wife was bummed out for a while. I asked her if she had slept with him, and she said no, but I wondered. Well recently I found out he moved back here, managing a different restaurant-bar, and my wife had been hanging out there on her nights off. When I asked her about it, she admitted they have been having sex at his apartment several times a week. I'm okay with that, and i told her so. Since she has been seeing him, she has been hypersexual, and our sex life has been great. She tells me about what they do, and it's a huge turn on for me. I've told her I would be okay with him coming home with her, but she said she didn't think he'd go for it. I've been fantasizing about 3somes with the two of them and I'm wondering how to make this happen.