Couple in need. Help from boredom?

GermanCouplee

Couple
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Hello together

I have introduced us before. We were rather silent read along. Sure mainly me as a man and my girlfriend from time to time but rather less.

We are a couple for 7 years. My GF is 31 and i am 33. If someone like to see pictures please in a Private Chat.

I work Monday to Friday away and stay at the hotel. And she is in an office.
The first 3 years we had majority sex and everything was good.

Now we have without that I exaggerate still 2-4x sex in the year.

She does not feel very attractive. And our sexdrive together is not insanely high.

She is generally rather closed and conservative. But not extreme. You can talk to her about it and dildo or even other we have only 1x used but she liked.

She knows my fetish therefore she was already on this site.

My question:
- How do we get out of the boring no sex?
- She is not dominant but can you "learn" that?
- Since with us anyway nothing to very little runs. Is there a chance to make her hot on black men?

The goal does not have to be that she will live out the same fantasies in real life (fine if she wants to).

My goal is to upload her sexdrive and that she becomes weak at larger tails preferably black.
 
What kind of Porn would you start to watch?
Start with a mix of different porn types, maybe a compilation that has white and black men. Slowly expose her to bbc without being too obvious. After 5-10 sessions (when she’s showing signs of enjoying porn) watch a bbc video, do that for another 5-10 sessions than go into cuckold amateur porn. Also you gotta make her feel good otherwise she won’t be in the mood for porn especially if she’s self conscious.
 
That is a good idea thank you very much.

My "problem" is that I am only at home Friday - Monday the rest I am out of the house because of work. And to get her in the mood right then to watch porn.
But I can manage that well.

Would you start watching porn to not have sex but use the dildo?
 
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