I live in this hood for 13 years in my wife's condo, recently we bought a new one, closer to the subway station. I'm not a programmer, I spend most of the time talking with people. I'm nosy, so I know about almost everything interesting.
You're meeting with the wrong people. Who do expect to meet at the night club? The Pope? You meet greedy bitches, golddiggers, often ******* addicts. No wonder you're so disenchanted in people.
You seem to spend most of the time on this forum uploading photos, you can tell anyone you have a wife, but this means nothing.
I meet people from all walks of life, and I do not go into night clubs and talk to strangers, I go to schools, petrol stations, universities, businesses, supermarkets, coffee shops, mayors office, banks, shopping centers, everywhere....... and they are all playing games. I can give you an example. I walked into a bank and waiting, and the lady asked me "What do you want" I said I need to exchange money, she said 'sorry we cannot do that today because we have no money to exchange' this was a bs, as the person infront of me exchanged money, she said that because I was with another female and she was jealous. So I just went out of the bank across the road, and exchanged the money as a better exchange than the bank, saving myself money, this is just one example. Another example I was in a small shop, and the person serving me said 'do you have small change' I said no, she said sorry I cannot give you money for the products you purchased - I thought bs, because she held the cash register very close to her, so I could not see how much money was in the cash register, and it was freezing cold outside. I took the money back and went to another shop. Once I was at a tyre shop, and I was waiting to get my tyres changed, he said 'sorry I am waiting for another person' which was another bs, he was lazy and didn't care, another time at the bank telling me that western union I need to pay additional insurance, I said no thanks and went to another bank which was bs lie. Another time I was in another shop, and I ordered someone online to collect it from the shop, and they had a 'problem with my card' I said I just paid on another cash register and no problem.. I was waiting for there 30 minutes, I said I can go into the shop and buy the same item, she said no no, I said why not? It will just take me 5 minutes to get the item and cancel this online sale to pick it up from the store. another time I wanted to buy something and trying to short change me (foreigner), so I can go on and on and on and on............. these are not 'gold diggers' its the mentality, now I understand this and I just smile every time they do it, but at first it was annoying. I think they are boerd shitless out of there jobs and love to provocate against people.