Hi we are new to the Fort Lauderdale area and would like to visit either Trapeze in Ft Lauderdale or Defy in Pompano Beach. Which one is better chance to meet a bbc without too much lurkers? We have only been to one club that was local to us and lasted like 10 minutes before we left as felt like everyone was starting at us sizing us up! lol Looking for a club with an upperscale feel and music to dance and go from there. Any thoughts...
