Start having more sex and kinkier sex and your issue will clear up. I have noticed if i go a month without sex no jacking off i tend to get off quicker. But if i am getting it regularly like twice day everyday i can last. Have it every day but before you penetration make sure your wife gets the Big O before you do.Hi, we have been in the cuckold lifestyle for over 10 years now. and recently I came to the realization that I cum to fast. I used to last longer before, but now with a few strokes I cum, leaving the wife frustrated and angry. So much so now, that i feel its a waste of time for her and me to start sex since it finishes soooo fast. Maybe its the mental pictures of her fucking others, that always seem to be present when we start to have sex... happened to anyone else??