There are different levels or risk. I ride a motorcycle but I know how far not to go when riding. If I think it is dangerous to ride on a given day I don't ride.
Bulls who ended up destroying the couple's relationship
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Very well stated.
Then you watch T.V.
Keep reading.
I don't want to turn this thread into a political discussion. So, I will not elaborate on the fact that blacks and Hispanics have the lowest unemployment rate in the history of the U.S.A. right now. And I know you will tell me that is because O'bama did it. Ok enough said.
I am very sorry to hear that. If she has not already tried to come back, she probably will in the future. Mine did. 30 years later. IN fact, all mine do. Sex can be a powerful ******* but in the end, it is about the day to day relationship.
Very well stated.
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i was dumped (two years and counting) after accepting (= encouraging) what my girl wanted. i both do and don’t regret it. i guess what i miss is the opportunity to kid myself that i was capable of pleasing her by pretending to be a man. i regret that i thought i’d be able to keep the relationship going as a sort of Mistress/servant thing. With a different woman maybe that would have worked, but not with her.
Then your old, then you live that part of life
, I doubt the bull is to blame.. the relationship was probably already on dodgy ground .. May be a good thing that it ends the relationship, as opposed to grinding on and on.
Some have tried but does not me it worked.
I'm sorry, what is a "Wraf" and may I say that while your response is interesting, it is not relevant. The topic is not just "hooking up with a black man because my husband neglects me". You say yourself that it was "not the cause of the break up of your my first marriage". So, can we please stay on topic?
You are a moral man!
You would be remiss? LOL Must be a corporate executive.
Your post is more about cheating. or is it?? Significant that you write about him and state "i will try to make it last" when referring to your husband.
How would your bull break up the marriage? Maybe the experience of a real man in your bed is causing doubts about your husband?
I would like to say in this case obviously, your bull would not be the impetus of the breakup. I see a lot of women on this thread speaking of how a bull was motivation for what was inevitable. When a partner refuses to communicate or hear you, there is no solution. I am not sure but it seems that in some cases:
1. The cuckold relationship takes the pressure off the husband and then he completely loses interest because of the humiliation
2. The husband isn't man enough to admit isn't over and so he lets his wife play while she remains unsatisfied in the relationship.
then:
3. The wife goes with the bull and it does not last because the bull did not want a relationship with the wife, he wanted to a fuck buddy.
In both these scenarios, it is not really the bulls fault. In fact the question I would ask is, "is it ever the bull's fault?"
So, is it ever the bulls fault? I would tend to think not.
I'm not certain its bulls destroying the relationship, unless that is their intention. I lost a wife and a fiance to men who I encouraged to fuck on a regular basis, both times I fucked up by wanting to build an ongoing thing between the 3 of us, but both times, they fell for each other... and I became the third wheel. The bulls didn't set out to steal my ex's but I guess I put it on a plate for them, and once my ex's had fallien for them, I couldn't reverse it.. i tried, but it didn't happen. I do think my ex's wanted out of relationships with myself, and these two guys who were funny, charming, successful and could fuck my ex's the way the liked it, were the ticket out.
And when the bull dumps you for a younger play toy and you’re showing age, you will wish you had your hubby back.
So then you would say that a foolish risk is ok outside the confines of a traditional relationship?
Is everything we do really a risk? I think not. Also, there is a degree of risk. It can't be said that all risk is equal.
I've never, ever heard or read of ANYONE in a long term relationship and good with it say that. It takes work, sometimes trial and error to be committed to another human being while dealing with every day life and trying to keep them happy even if I'm not (or vice versa), not for a day or two, or trying to have sex cuz I'm horny, but for fuckin years?
The guys that don't try are the ones where she's leaving, and vice versa.
No I'm not. 30+ year federal employee and an intelligent American of African descent. I'm educated and articulate; is it inappropriate? Is it threatening?
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