I respect your opinion. Its not that I don't agree with it but many babies out there get created out of many stupid reasons, without any planning. My thought is that there is nothing that a ch-ild can't understand if he is surrounded with unconditional love and support. Its completely wrong to make babies out of fun and kink, but with the right planning, I don't see why not? Why would it be a problem to tell "we weren't able to conceive, so we brought some help". In any case it beats "I got ******* and accident happened" any time of the day and I am not sure about the area that you come from, but where I am, it happens more than it should.