Hey, here is what we've learned after 13 years in the swinger's lifestyle, and 5 years of meeting extremely well-endowed black men.
Decide on what type of black male turns you on, in shape, shy, outgoing, blunt, married, single, bi, open minded, aggressive or someone in between.
I prefer younger black males, because they are usually in great shape, not beer belly, honest,90% of them are single, (not into married men) personally! The new generation of younger black males are amazingly hung,10-13",and believe it not they know how to use it,and if not they are open to learning. They do not rest after they cum,"no down time" what so ever! Ages 19-27, is the sweet spot for me. Now I did start out with an older black male he was in his 40's self employed plumper, which means he was in great shape, with awesome stamina, and he was 9"1/2.
We also attend local bars, predominately black clubs, also hang out where the college football, basketball teams hang out. Our favorite is HBCU's,be open to conversation mingle,before you know it you will have several FWB. Lastly the swingers sites,this is why we havent gotten verified on this site,because we are verified on SLS,AFF,Fetlife. If you have any questions feel free to contact us.