Best way to find honest BBC

It’s a pain in the ass finding the right person, period. Can’t rush into it with just anyone and it takes time no matter what website you’re on. Most guys are flakes (sorry guys), and couples are worse — I’m sure you know this already so sorry if this comes off preachy.

I recommend going to swinger clubs if you haven’t already tried it. Another thing that we do is we have profiles on a ton of other mediums. Twitter, SDC, Pornhub, Tinder, Doublelist ads, the list goes on and on. We hate the chase so when we finally found a really good guy, that was it! He’s the bull. The end. But it took FOREVER
Didnt know people used pornhub to meet people lol
 
We have not been active much on this site for a while but restarting. I find so many empty profiles and many appear to be guys just masturbating to my pics or wanting to sextext and ask me questions to satisfy their needs. I would like to suggest that as we ladies meet some bbc on line here we find a way to post that we played together and he was as advertised. I would be more interested in traveling and reaching out to BBC here if I had a real recommendation from another woman. Just a thought.
Welcome to the club its the same way with couples or single women. Most of the couples on here are men trolling or men just looking at cock pictures. It could also be the type of man you are looking for, remember not all big dicks come attatched the Rock. Its basically a hit or miss game, especially so if you are looking for a certain physical type. I am speaking as " black" man, its just how the net is. i remember the lifestyle just when the inernet was getting started less trolls and less fakes.
 
This is true, I have even made a damn Skype and kik to communicate with these so called Verify woman and most have been like , yea im not on B2W that often and they aren't even on KiK or Skype often as well.

Like why give me yall KiK and Skype info for communication if you are not going to communicate 😭🤣😂.

Thats why I just do the direct approach in real life and only be here for fun.

Gotta stick with the original strategy lol
Of course there will always be the flakes and fakes … but I’m sure you know this but for newbies… just some info from a woman’s perspective…

I can’t say if I’m still new here as it’s been two years. I still feel new to the lifestyle. But… in the very beginning, I did verify the first night I signed up. That was a good start.

But the first guy I started to talk to about meeting asked me to connect on Kik. I was like, on what? Many of us “older” chicks (well, mid 40’s - wait, slightly past that lol!) probably don’t even know what Kik is. And we don’t want to give our real number out for FaceTime or Snapchat since Kik took away the video option.

But the guy let me know about Kik- and I downloaded it straight away. Chatted a bit and he could tell I was real and didn’t even need a pic or video verification to meet me (and then a few more times!).

The next guy taught me to get a Google voice number and download Google Hangouts to chat on video. I didn’t even think about that myself. A new Google email and phone number for privacy.

My main squeeze taught me about the app Wickr which has tighter privacy and video capabilities. Now we just text and FaceTime though!

Someone else taught me about Signal- but I didn’t like that I accidentally hit yes to “pull your contacts in,” and I couldn’t undo it even after deleting the account and starting over.

Anyway- point being, guys might need to politely walk a woman through getting on some of these apps… BUT then keep up the fun conversation just a bit while she figures it out. And if she doesn’t … and quickly … then I would say move on.

But a little help is appreciated if you’re new and nervous. Again… once I was told each thing to try in turn, it was completed that day. I guess that’s how you know the real ones…

Have fun kicking it old school or on b2w!
 
Of course there will always be the flakes and fakes … but I’m sure you know this but for newbies… just some info from a woman’s perspective…

I can’t say if I’m still new here as it’s been two years. I still feel new to the lifestyle. But… in the very beginning, I did verify the first night I signed up. That was a good start.

But the first guy I started to talk to about meeting asked me to connect on Kik. I was like, on what? Many of us “older” chicks (well, mid 40’s - wait, slightly past that lol!) probably don’t even know what Kik is. And we don’t want to give our real number out for FaceTime or Snapchat since Kik took away the video option.

But the guy let me know about Kik- and I downloaded it straight away. Chatted a bit and he could tell I was real and didn’t even need a pic or video verification to meet me (and then a few more times!).

The next guy taught me to get a Google voice number and download Google Hangouts to chat on video. I didn’t even think about that myself. A new Google email and phone number for privacy.

My main squeeze taught me about the app Wickr which has tighter privacy and video capabilities. Now we just text and FaceTime though!

Someone else taught me about Signal- but I didn’t like that I accidentally hit yes to “pull your contacts in,” and I couldn’t undo it even after deleting the account and starting over.

Anyway- point being, guys might need to politely walk a woman through getting on some of these apps… BUT then keep up the fun conversation just a bit while she figures it out. And if she doesn’t … and quickly … then I would say move on.

But a little help is appreciated if you’re new and nervous. Again… once I was told each thing to try in turn, it was completed that day. I guess that’s how you know the real ones…

Have fun kicking it old school or on b2w!
I understand do that hun lol.

But what I was getting at is, say if me and you was talking.

Then I told you hey I not online on here as often, and the best way to speak with me daily is on kik.

Add me there, here is my username etc.

Boom you at me there, we chat the first day.

Then after that, I dnt reply back because I'm not online on there as often as well. 🤣😭😂, this is very rude and waste of time.

This has happened to me recently, ant I told the lady hey, what and hell is going on, and apparently she is secretly married, with ******* , and this is her fantasy and she really likes me.

If she stated that she was married and doing things on the low, from the beginning, I wouldn't leave me in high expectations for an daily communication from her end
 
I understand do that hun lol.

But what I was getting at is, say if me and you was talking.

Then I told you hey I not online on here as often, and the best way to speak with me daily is on kik.

Add me there, here is my username etc.

Boom you at me there, we chat the first day.

Then after that, I dnt reply back because I'm not online on there as often as well. 🤣😭😂, this is very rude and waste of time.

This has happened to me recently, ant I told the lady hey, what and hell is going on, and apparently she is secretly married, with ******* , and this is her fantasy and she really likes me.

If she stated that she was married and doing things on the low, from the beginning, I wouldn't leave me in high expectations for an daily communication from her end
Totally agree that that sucks!! Or rather does not end up with sucking. ☹️

I was just adding some feedback for other guys who might need to help some women get on these sites to begin with (Kik, etc!!). If they ghost you - they weren’t real. Ugh. No fun.
 
Totally agree that that sucks!! Or rather does not end up with sucking. ☹️

I was just adding some feedback for other guys who might need to help some women get on these sites to begin with (Kik, etc!!). If they ghost you - they weren’t real. Ugh. No fun.
Exactly, and I totally understand where you are coming from too.

And hell what's your KiK if you dnt mind me asking?

You interested in becoming friends and chatting daily, we can do sexualize chatting and pic sharing as well
 
Exactly, and I totally understand where you are coming from too.

And hell what's your KiK if you dnt mind me asking?

You interested in becoming friends and chatting daily, we can do sexualize chatting and pic sharing as well
Aww thanks. That is flattering of course. I have a “steady” guy right now. And a husband to keep happy too. Hands are happily full right now. 😊
 
We have not been active much on this site for a while but restarting. I find so many empty profiles and many appear to be guys just masturbating to my pics or wanting to sextext and ask me questions to satisfy their needs. I would like to suggest that as we ladies meet some bbc on line here we find a way to post that we played together and he was as advertised. I would be more interested in traveling and reaching out to BBC here if I had a real recommendation from another woman. Just a thought.
Let them know you are honest by verifying
 
We have not been active much on this site for a while but restarting. I find so many empty profiles and many appear to be guys just masturbating to my pics or wanting to sextext and ask me questions to satisfy their needs. I would like to suggest that as we ladies meet some bbc on line here we find a way to post that we played together and he was as advertised. I would be more interested in traveling and reaching out to BBC here if I had a real recommendation from another woman. Just a thought.
And there is a thread about sharing who has met who you just need to VERIFY
 
Our best luck finding a bull is dating apps. No complaints. Here? Just have to be a little more careful and people are further apart.
 
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