Being a caring and supportive white guy can be so exciting in the IR cuckold lifestyle

I wanted to respond to WelshIRcuck. I think your comments and feelings are natural, healthy, and very lovely. In my opinion, and based on watching people in the real world as well as porn, there is a natural evolution of white boys to become beta people. Support people, Caring people. Loving people but not masculine sexual partners with women. This is why white boys increasingly see masturbation as normal and healthy sex or some form of sex with other white boys. This is why white boys increasingly seek out feminization. To look more feminine. To be unable to erect. To be sweet and submissive but absolutely no threat to black men or white women. This is not "gay" and that stereotype does not seem appropriate when it comes to white boys. And in the end who cares. The important thing is for white boys to do everything they can to make themselves less than black men. To encourage white women to cuckold them and to dominate them if needed. To be happy for others. If a white boy can achieve this on some level everyone will be happier. Especially black men and white women who do not have to spend one second of time worrying about the desires of a white boy. They would then know that the white boy is there to serve and they will make the white boy happiest if they use him to achieve their own goals with each other. WelshIRcuck is obviously someone who gets it and understands it. Pretty brilliant for a white boy. I do disagree with his idea that many white men would think this is the "worst". First of all they are really boys and not men. At least in my opinion. And I think when they are alone in the dark they all secretly want and need to be cuckolded and marginalized and emasculated. The sometimes macho white boy is faking it and acting out a fantasy of masculinity in my opinion. I think just about all white boys will eventually accept all of this but this is my opinion. Sorry to WelshIRcuck to disagree. You are really a boy I admire very much on this site and we agree on just about everything. But I think you do not need to apologize for being what you were always meant to be. Anyways, these are my thoughts and I will be interested if others agree or think I am out of touch. Thanks to WelshIRcuck.
This is such a beautiful, and eloquent statement, and I fully agree with it.
 
This is VERY well said. The natural and healthy tendency for a white boy is to be supportive and sweet, and I might add somewhat feminine. At least feminine in the traditional sense. Sex for a white boy is most natural with the hand or another white boy but usually with his hand as he thinks about real sex and real love. The natural and healthy tendency for a black man is to be masculine and dominant and everything a white boy cannot be. I think these differences must be in the biology and apply to everyone, but I am sure some will not agree with that. In my opinion most of the relationship troubles come from confusion. White women expecting their white boys to be masculine. They cannot be that and never will. White boys trying to be masculine and overdoing it. Finally black men seem to often hold back. At least in my opinion. When will that end? When we see a black man regardless of age openly approach a white woman. Married and with a white boy husband or boyfriend is all the better. That dynamic is what will make everyone happiest. It is the way things should be. Anyways, sorry to go on. I mainly just wanted to compliment WelshIRcuck. This is a really lovely note from a white boy who understand his role. Impressive.
This paragraph perfectly describes me. "The natural tendency for a white boy is to be supportive and sweet, and somewhat feminine".
"Sex for a white boy is most natural with the hand, or another white boy".
These words in particular could not describe me better.
 
Although I'm a very well-educated, fit and attractive white male I realise, when it comes to sex, those factors may not be the most exciting. I'm also a very kind and caring man and although these qualities are great for a long-term relationship they don't exactly set the bedroom on fire. Contrast that with big, dominant, alpha, hung Black bull and the white pussies are literally dripping.
I don't feel negative about that, rather white girls who like their hung black bulls really excite me. I just want to give them the best of both worlds - a caring and supportive white cuck and one or more sexually exciting black bulls,
So many of us think like that
 
I long to have the feeling of being the more submissive white male to a white partner who has big black lovers. At one time, and for many white men now, this would be just about the worst and most anxiety producing situation, but I have come to crave it like no other feeling.

I think there are quite a few white guys out there who feel the same.
There is many of us and more and more each day who have realized black men provide our women the best sex
 
i don't think you have to worry, there are plenty of great marriages and relationships out there, where the white hubby has a wonderful everyday marriage with his wife, however the sexual part is fulfilled by a bull. There will always be a need for hubby to provide financial and emotional support.
Black men are the missing sexual link in great marriages
 
There is many of us and more and more each day who have realized black men provide our women the best sex
I agree. And I think there are quite a few white guys out there who would allow a big black man to fuck their white wife but never in a million years allow a white man to fuck her no matter how big or dominant he is. Big black men do seem to have extra privileges when it comes to having sex with white wives.
 
A lot of white males on this website want to support a white female who has black lovers, but most don't want to have sex with other women themselves. This goes against the stereotype that most males just want to have sex with as many women as possible. I know that if I had a white gf who was seeing black men I would encourage and support her but have no desire whatsoever to have sex with other women.
The cuckold psyche is an interesting one and difficult to fathom, especially for women I believe.
 
I think you can even go further. White boys are evolving into something other than alpha men. They are boys or sissies or bottoms or submissives. I don't think you can generalize that this is everybody but I think the trend is there for many, if not most. As such the "new normal" for white boys may not only be a desire to not have sex with OTHER women but to not have sex with ANY woman. Deep down white boys want women to be with black men and they welcome the power and leadership of black men. The desire to be a true beta boy and to encourage the primary couple cannot be suppressed. I totally agree with WelshIRcuck that the psyche is interesting. I think it may be more than just so called cuckolds but would also apply to all white boys. Women are just starting to figure it all out which is why increasingly you see white women out and about with black men. thanks to all for the insights, especially WelshIRcuck.
 
Although I'm a very well-educated, fit and attractive white male I realise, when it comes to sex, those factors may not be the most exciting. I'm also a very kind and caring man and although these qualities are great for a long-term relationship they don't exactly set the bedroom on fire. Contrast that with big, dominant, alpha, hung Black bull and the white pussies are literally dripping.
I don't feel negative about that, rather white girls who like their hung black bulls really excite me. I just want to give them the best of both worlds - a caring and supportive white cuck and one or more sexually exciting black bulls,
Good boy!
 
I think you can even go further. White boys are evolving into something other than alpha men. They are boys or sissies or bottoms or submissives. I don't think you can generalize that this is everybody but I think the trend is there for many, if not most. As such the "new normal" for white boys may not only be a desire to not have sex with OTHER women but to not have sex with ANY woman. Deep down white boys want women to be with black men and they welcome the power and leadership of black men. The desire to be a true beta boy and to encourage the primary couple cannot be suppressed. I totally agree with WelshIRcuck that the psyche is interesting. I think it may be more than just so called cuckolds but would also apply to all white boys. Women are just starting to figure it all out which is why increasingly you see white women out and about with black men. thanks to all for the insights, especially WelshIRcuck.
I know so many white guys who really love interracial porn involving black men and white women. They probably don't know why they find it so arousing, nor do I to be honest, but it's not a far step from there to having cuckold thoughts and desires. And once that cuckold desire is there, there is only one type of relationship we want - an interracial cuckold one.
 
I know so many white guys who really love interracial porn involving black men and white women. They probably don't know why they find it so arousing, nor do I to be honest, but it's not a far step from there to having cuckold thoughts and desires. And once that cuckold desire is there, there is only one type of relationship we want - an interracial cuckold one.
It is truly an amazing thing to be a part of!!
 
I wonder how many white guys on this site would be in long-term monogamous relationships if it wasn't for their cuckold desires? I think even some of the most caring guys on here may be forgoing such relationships in the hope they will find a white female who also wants an interracial cuckold relationship.
 
I have no desire whatsoever to have sex with multiple females, but I desire immeasurably to be a partner to a white female who wants a lot of sex with big black males. And to be bloody loyal to her too! The mindset of the white cuckold male.
 
I think it is very difficult for white women to understand the white cuckold mindset. I think they automatically think we have some desire to use them to get to and have sex with big black men, but this is complete rubbish (at least for some white cucks)!

It is incredible how sexy and alluring I find white women that like big black bulls, but the sexual focus is on the white female, not the black bull! The sex from there on in is negotiable with the white female but the sexual focus is on her exclusively!

I am aware that I speak for certain white cucks regarding this, other white cucks may feel differently and that's fair enough.
 
I think it is very difficult for white women to understand the white cuckold mindset. I think they automatically think we have some desire to use them to get to and have sex with big black men, but this is complete rubbish (at least for some white cucks)!

It is incredible how sexy and alluring I find white women that like big black bulls, but the sexual focus is on the white female, not the black bull! The sex from there on in is negotiable with the white female but the sexual focus is on her exclusively!

I am aware that I speak for certain white cucks regarding this, other white cucks may feel differently and that's fair enough.
Some of what you say is true however for me as a cuckold husband I enjoy watching my wife fuck other men more than actually having sex with her myself I am almost at the stage I do t need to cum in her any more I get more satisfaction now from seeing the bbc sperm inside her than I ever did from doing it myself and she puts on such a great show every time
 
I want to be a loving and caring partner to a BBC loving white female but simultaneously her cuckold as well. So far, this has proved difficult to accomplish.
 
I think it's a bit ironic but there are a lot of kind and caring white males out there that would make great loyal partners in a monogamous relationship, but they are still single because they want to be in a cuckold relationship. Specifically, they want to be a cuckold to a white female that has one or more big black lovers.
We (because I am one of them) give up so much, in the hope that we will find that precious BBC loving white cuckoldress.
 
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