Are there any white wives who were the first to raise the topic of having a BBC?
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open2bbcinMO
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Divorce is definitely the last step, but you are already heading down that path if you are cheating IMO. I am not judging, it is simply my perspective on that particular behavior.
I had all the fears associated with the wife sleeping with other men, but I let the excitement of it all outweigh my fears. She probably manipulated me into it. Women are smart like that when it comes to men I believe. I try to never underestimate her ability to manipulate me, but it probalby still happens. She was reading "smut" and the resulting sex was awesome. When I asked her about it, she "reluctantly" told me that her favorite subject was to read about threesomes. It became a common topic during sex, and the next thing you know i was asking her if she wanted to add another guy to the bedroom. She of course vehemently denied an interest in that (at first), lol.
The biggest surprise for me was that my wife loved for me to be excited by it all too. I thought (and feared) she would just be thinking of, and only into the guy she was with. So when I started saying things like "doesn't my wife's pussy feel good", etc., she clearly loved it. When I started using my hands, mouth and dick to compliment what her "friend" was doing, her orgasms were amazing. She thought squirting was a myth until she was riding a well-endowed young friend of hers, and I began playing with her clit and ass at the same time. She became a fountain much to all of our surprise.
So there is definitely lots of fun to be had if you can open him up to it. If he as absolutely never considered such a thing, even in his own head, the transition could be rough. If he is a perv like the majority of us, it may be a little easier with the right moves as long as you don't scare him off in the process.
URpatheticCuck
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That's too bad cuz I would love a shot at being your cleanup cuck hubby.
I did. I had been into bbc since my teens and was still fucking and sucking bbc when we got engaged and married. I wanted to be able to get more bbc than I was getting sneaking around so I got hubby watching IR porn and talking to him about seeing me fuck a black man. He was on the fence until one day when he came home from work early and caught me in our bed getting spitroast by two bulls from the cable company. They didn't miss a beat when he walked in and I looked over and hubby was stroking himself. It's been great ever since.
:-/ Wow ...”Open2BBCinMO” spitting fire and doing it in a logical and candid manner too. That’s right up your ally. You are “realest” on this site and shut down many of the over the top fantasies and extreme kinks and most times I’m in agreement , but if I had to guess, her observations have given u pause on broaching the subject with the ole hubs ...
Wow. That's amazing.
Perhaps, but it's a big step to take, loaded with risk. ??
deepbreeder
Male
Ask your husband this. Doesnt he wAnt you to cum as much and as hard as you need. BBC is going to do it for you, and you deserve it. Just talk to him about it. Im sure the thoufht of you cumming hard would turn him on.
He is an idiot girl like u deserves all bbc u want
In our case, I did.....suggested a black dildo after he got a white one.
Amazing what comes out when one is in the throes of ecstacy (assuming you WERE in the throes of ecstacy....). Especially after a nice cocktail! ) Well said, Matureblond.
My wife went to high-school at a school with a diverse student body, and so had dated guys of all sorts of ethnicities, black among them. It was during sex that we were discussing which of them she enjoyed most, best lovers, orgasms, etc., and would do again if the opportunity came about. She'd had a fairly long (for high school times) dating relationship with a black classmate and there had been an emotional bond as well, especially as they weathered pregnancy scares and the like. Once we knew we wanted to invite other men into our bedroom, there was no doubt some black guys would be in the mix. And they were. It was rewarding for all three of us!
) Well said, Matureblond.My wife went to high-school at a school with a diverse student body, and so had dated guys of all sorts of ethnicities, black among them. It was during sex that we were discussing which of them she enjoyed most, best lovers, orgasms, etc., and would do again if the opportunity came about. She'd had a fairly long (for high school times) dating relationship with a black classmate and there had been an emotional bond as well, especially as they weathered pregnancy scares and the like. Once we knew we wanted to invite other men into our bedroom, there was no doubt some black guys would be in the mix. And they were. It was rewarding for all three of us!
URpatheticCuck
Male
That so sucks because that's the type of marriage I've been seeking for a long time.
Mine is still very strong, and I have admitted to it.
JenNWayne
Couple
You're a rare and awesome lady then
. U deserved it to go wellCurioushubby19
Couple
Not long after we met we were socialising with a male friend the drinks were flowing and it all got very suggestive. Back home that evening she said she would like to take things further, I didn't react but left it a couple of days to ask her, when sober, if she was serious. She said she was and we progressed to having many mmf's with that friend and many other single guys, as well as fun with couples and single ladies.
Our marriage is now at the point we can both be totally honest and open with each other about who we want to fuck etc. Last year we were holidaying in Spain and even before check in my wife spotted a hunky and sexy black guy, and when she saw him in the pool she was instantly on heat. Unfortunately he was with his wife and family so couldn't really react to her mildly suggestive flirting. The result being that for 2 weeks she constantly told me how much she wanted to fuck him and what she would do given the chance, and would fantasise about him whenever I fucked her.
Had she managed to get him alone I know she would have taken him to our room and fucked him whilst I stayed by the pool, and I would have gladly let her. Later that day we would have fucked while she would have recounted everything they got up to.
sad that happened but then you found what was beneficial to you.
How does your new hubby fit in? Does he too serve BBC?
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