Any cuckold (single or attached) in the NY/NJ area that wants to mingle

[mntess885]

Hello

So briefly. About Me: I am an very experienced Bull and Trainer. I have taught many cuckolds how to develop these relationships from being single, to dating to more LTR dynamics. I have also helped married cuckolds with "taking" their wives from newbies to full on cock sluts.

I am seeking for right now- Only cuckolds, either single or married, its ok. Its ok if you have zero experience. I do not want any men that are going to be "afraid" to meet up. If you can't admit that while reading that don't worry, because I will screen you and you will not be able to hide from me. So just be aware that I will vet out any fantasy chat or bs. If you are serious about this contact me.

I am doing a 3way chat right now, I am training a young lady about hung dick and im allowing a Manhattan based cuckold to observe my training of her. I'll be honest, he isn't taking full advantage of this opportunity, which is so typical of you cuckold guys. You just get so "spoiled" with your privileged lives.

Hello,
Hope you had a good 4th!! I have been looking through your posts and was impressed with the dedication and passion you seem to have for what you do.

I decided to write because my gf (of 4 years and will probably be engaged this summer) and I have been playing for awhile with toys, roll play about BBC and watching porn while we play. She gets very into it and very obviously enjoys the toys and the size but whenever I mention someone else she says she doesn't want anyone else. I truly think she would enjoy it and get so much pleasure from experiencing it but feel like I have kinda hit a wall.

I'll be honest....this is something that I fantasize about but more because I want to see her enjoy herself and be completely satisfied. Hoping you could offer some advice or some other guidance. Have a great rest of your weekend! Thanks!

 

[takehernow4u]

Hello

So briefly. About Me: I am an very experienced Bull and Trainer. I have taught many cuckolds how to develop these relationships from being single, to dating to more LTR dynamics. I have also helped married cuckolds with "taking" their wives from newbies to full on cock sluts.

I am seeking for right now- Only cuckolds, either single or married, its ok. Its ok if you have zero experience. I do not want any men that are going to be "afraid" to meet up. If you can't admit that while reading that don't worry, because I will screen you and you will not be able to hide from me. So just be aware that I will vet out any fantasy chat or bs. If you are serious about this contact me.

I am doing a 3way chat right now, I am training a young lady about hung dick and im allowing a Manhattan based cuckold to observe my training of her. I'll be honest, he isn't taking full advantage of this opportunity, which is so typical of you cuckold guys. You just get so "spoiled" with your privileged lives.

Hi - can’t message you. Interested.

 

[mntess885]

Hi - can’t message you. Interested.

Same......thats why I posted to the thread.

 

[Bustyblonde]

Can't message you...

 

[hungteacher]

Hello,
Hope you had a good 4th!! I have been looking through your posts and was impressed with the dedication and passion you seem to have for what you do.

I decided to write because my gf (of 4 years and will probably be engaged this summer) and I have been playing for awhile with toys, roll play about BBC and watching porn while we play. She gets very into it and very obviously enjoys the toys and the size but whenever I mention someone else she says she doesn't want anyone else. I truly think she would enjoy it and get so much pleasure from experiencing it but feel like I have kinda hit a wall.

I'll be honest....this is something that I fantasize about but more because I want to see her enjoy herself and be completely satisfied. Hoping you could offer some advice or some other guidance. Have a great rest of your weekend! Thanks!

Hi man, so glad you posted. I think the "BIGGEST" mistake that men make is that they "fantasize" too much about sex and forget about why their gf or wife is in a relationship with you. If she liked you for the sex, she would have left you probably. correct? so think about that. She is with you because you are her best friend, you are her "lover", you are someone she cares for deeply. I dont fully understand why men mistake and overlook this quality women have, but you are missing it big time.

Women are amazing as people, they are definitely wired differently than men, but they aren't as complex as you guys seem to make them out to be. They just aren't into shallow, surface things that most men are into. So what you fantasize about, her getting pleasure from sex, she has decided its not a big deal for her, she would rather have "5" sex, (rating 1 out of 10), and an amazing bf or husband, then try and chase after guys that are "9" or "10" in bed because in all honesty, and you know this, guys that are that good in bed, tend to be real Dickheads and also dont like monogamy. I am a "9" in bed, if I meet the right woman, I can get to a "10" but I am ethically non-monogamous. Its something I have to let women know upfront, because I think hidden surprises can really ruin a woman's attitude toward a man.

So think about that? Your gf of 4 years, has a vision and image of her perfect life with you. The problem with your question to me is that you didn't seem to comment or mention what her "PERFECT" image of life with you is? And so how far off is her perfect vision from your fantasy. I have been helping and coaching couples for more than a decade and that is usually where I start with the husband. And that is where things either go in a good direction or the guy gets too stubborn and too pig-headed to want to listen and he decides "ill do it on my own."

Its no skin off my back, I give advice, its up to the guy to listen and take it or to go his own way. But what I do is build a bridge from her Perfect image to your fantasy and so when your gf or wife sees the bridge, she feels 100% safer walking across it.

Right now, you are asking her to LEAP across a ravine and you haven't built a bridge, you haven't even put safety netting down and you are scratching your head why she doesn't want to do it? In her mind, you not only sound crazy, but pretty stupid.

I get asked all the time, do women who fuck other men lose respect for their husbands? And the answer is it Depends. If you make up ridiculous requests like this, YES, she will lose respect for you easy. But when you think of everything, take care of everything and show her how much effort you put in for HER, she doesn't lose respect, but gains respect, she will actually love you more because what other man would do that for her? NO one thats the answer. No one, most guys are complete douchebags. LOL

Hope that helps.

 

[hungteacher]

Hi - can’t message you. Interested.

thats because you have no profile. I had to cut down on the number of messages I got from people who didnt want to take the time to Post or to Make a profile. If you are that DISCREET, then me and you won't get along at all. I am a very very private person, I dont like broadcasting my activities all over the internet and I know how to stay private. But I am not into people who want to live a secret life.

I wish you the very best, but when you make a few more posts or provide a profile then I have some idea as to who you are.

 

[hungteacher]

Can't message you...

Welcome aboard. Not sure if you are married or just dating, but your woman looks a lot like a woman I trained a few years ago. She is very very sexy. Thanks for posting. Is there any topic you are most interested in?

 

[mntess885]

Hi man, so glad you posted. I think the "BIGGEST" mistake that men make is that they "fantasize" too much about sex and forget about why their gf or wife is in a relationship with you. If she liked you for the sex, she would have left you probably. correct? so think about that. She is with you because you are her best friend, you are her "lover", you are someone she cares for deeply. I dont fully understand why men mistake and overlook this quality women have, but you are missing it big time.

Women are amazing as people, they are definitely wired differently than men, but they aren't as complex as you guys seem to make them out to be. They just aren't into shallow, surface things that most men are into. So what you fantasize about, her getting pleasure from sex, she has decided its not a big deal for her, she would rather have "5" sex, (rating 1 out of 10), and an amazing bf or husband, then try and chase after guys that are "9" or "10" in bed because in all honesty, and you know this, guys that are that good in bed, tend to be real Dickheads and also dont like monogamy. I am a "9" in bed, if I meet the right woman, I can get to a "10" but I am ethically non-monogamous. Its something I have to let women know upfront, because I think hidden surprises can really ruin a woman's attitude toward a man.

So think about that? Your gf of 4 years, has a vision and image of her perfect life with you. The problem with your question to me is that you didn't seem to comment or mention what her "PERFECT" image of life with you is? And so how far off is her perfect vision from your fantasy. I have been helping and coaching couples for more than a decade and that is usually where I start with the husband. And that is where things either go in a good direction or the guy gets too stubborn and too pig-headed to want to listen and he decides "ill do it on my own."

Its no skin off my back, I give advice, its up to the guy to listen and take it or to go his own way. But what I do is build a bridge from her Perfect image to your fantasy and so when your gf or wife sees the bridge, she feels 100% safer walking across it.

Right now, you are asking her to LEAP across a ravine and you haven't built a bridge, you haven't even put safety netting down and you are scratching your head why she doesn't want to do it? In her mind, you not only sound crazy, but pretty stupid.

I get asked all the time, do women who fuck other men lose respect for their husbands? And the answer is it Depends. If you make up ridiculous requests like this, YES, she will lose respect for you easy. But when you think of everything, take care of everything and show her how much effort you put in for HER, she doesn't lose respect, but gains respect, she will actually love you more because what other man would do that for her? NO one thats the answer. No one, most guys are complete douchebags. LOL

Hope that helps.

Honestly everything you're saying makes complete sense. I would do anything and everything for her and really just want her to be happy. Hopefully didnt offend you in any way.....and hope we could still potentially talk and learn from you. Have a great night.

 

[hungteacher]

Honestly everything you're saying makes complete sense. I would do anything and everything for her and really just want her to be happy. Hopefully didnt offend you in any way.....and hope we could still potentially talk and learn from you. Have a great night.

No, I am not offended at all, I think what you wrote was really important because probably 90% of guys on this site have the same issue and message me the same question over and over, If I had a FAQ, that would be #1 on the list.

 

[Wannabeecuck]

Hi I’m interested in being cuckold, please hit me up.
Also on kik

jeffandco77

 

[BiSubCuck]

I can imagine there are a lot of men who should be cuckolds who fantasise and yet do not know how to behave to get there. I also know there are a lot of 'Bulls' who have no other objective than to have a quick fuck and move on.
You Sir seem to be a shining example to all and I really do wish we lived close. Im in the UK and have a girlfriend who is open to all this but so far we live apart and have had as many have had, a rather tough and very different year. I would really like to talk with you and hope we can chat.
Respectfully,
Gavin

 

[tomtomjim]

may i ask what you expect from a man who is a cuckold, i know what i would do if i was with you and another woman

 

[hungteacher]

Hi I’m interested in being cuckold, please hit me up.
Also on kik

jeffandco77

While I appreciate the message - the fact that you think I have "free" time to message complete strangers is not understanding your audience. I am a very experienced, knowledgeable and highly reputable bull, Dom and man in the community and lifestyle. I communicate with multiple women and couples on a weekly basis. I do not have the "free" time to message a guy, a cuckold, or a stranger -- unless I have a compelling reason to?

If I can give any advice to cuckold wannabes and husbands on this site -- make me an offer I can't refuse!
If you live in the NYC area, think about where we live-- what would make me happy? As of Dec 2020, the holiday season - I have 3 women that are extremely loyal to me. 2 are in NJ and 1 is in Oregon.

Here are some suggestions - some are "Paid" and some are "FREE" you decide what level you want to go in
First the FREE Suggestions:
If you are a married or single guy and want to be cuckolded -- I have done this countless times. Become my wingman, but it's nothing like anything you have ever done before. This is called cuckolding winging. If you understand what cuckolding is - it's where I have sex with a woman that is attached to you - someone who likes you, cares about you - but that I have sex with.
If you are single or married -- your wife may not want to be involved. Your gf may not want to be involved? So how do you still get cuckolded without their participation and approval? Simple, being my friend, being my cuckold wingman - you can still live the life - without cheating.
It means you need to talk to women, you need to become their friends, and they need to understand that you do not want to have sex with them --yes, upfront you need to let women know you are only there for them to be supportive, encouraging and positive. You will not try to have sex with them no matter what - but you do want to be intimate friends, you want to hear about their sex life and you want to be supportive, encouraging and positive. If you are willing to talk to women, and the best cuckold wingman I have had in the past - have had at least 3 female friends they had intimate friendships with - and I had one cuckold wingman who loved to flirt -- he was able to develop 9 separate intimate friendships with women. Over the course of 6 months, I had sex with half of his female friends and he heard every detail. 2 of the women were so "cool" with him - they allowed him to watch me have sex with them in his OWN bed.

Paid Suggestions:
1) If you live in the NYC area - getting a hotel suite for me so that I can entertain a couple or woman is just a really nice gesture and gift. I am not a taker, but a giver, so I do appreciate those gestures.
2) If you do not live in the NYC area - offering to pay for travel and expenses to your location is also a really amazing gesture - but I will say upfront that I will not go visit someone I dont know at least 6 months - to 12 months. I am not an *******, I am a highly educated and successful person, entrepreneur and leader -- I don't need to come to you to have sex. (In fact, I can have sex any day I want - so offering this isn't as compelling as you might think)
3) I will be in Vegas early January - I will be taking one of my women with me. Offer a spa day? Or if you will be in the area the same time and have a gf or wife that you want me to meet - we can all have lunch or dinner, etc. (If you can think of something really cool to offer - I'm always open to suggestions. Note: Tell me your offer, before you book, buy or whatever first. I nix 9 out of 10 ideas - I've heard them all before, so get confirmation from me that I am accepting your offer before you are "out" money. ok?)
4) for the adventurous type - if you want to offer a full vacation experience. for me, one of my women and you and your gf/wife - I am also open to this idea. It would have been even hotter in 2019 - when I had a wife (39 years old and a gf 20 years old) that would join me. The 20 yr old was really open to being watched having sex with me too (she was a huge show-off)

I offer these suggestions as things to think about -- so that cuckold men and wannabes can understand that REAL bulls are in high demand. Any bull that is messaging you and seems desperate doesn't have his game on lockdown yet. The GREAT bulls dont need to ask to meet, the GREAT bulls don't need to "sell" themselves.

Lastly for the Young Bulls - I have no issue with coaching and mentoring, but don't get upset at me or my advice, when it contradicts your thought process. I have been at this game for a long time - women adore me and enjoy and get excited to get naked with me. Yes, "Excited" -- they think about it all week, they get "dreamy" about the next time I will touch them, have sex with them. If you want this same level of adoration, then "listen" and don't argue and debate me.

I tried in 2017 with 2 other NY bulls to start the Bull Academy of NY. Unfortunately the other 2 guys - dropped the ball. I coached 5 new bulls and organized and hosted 2 parties for bulls and women. the other 2 - didn't meet or coach anyone and only "Showed" up to my parties. They brought nothing to the table. Here ye! Here ye! Bulls, if all you bring to the table is your cock -- you are a dime a dozen.

women love this life because the Bulls are Highly Engaging men. Think about it this way -- you need to become VERY interesting. You need to be the man that women "Want" to get to know. I don't chase women, they chase me.

 

[hungteacher]

I can imagine there are a lot of men who should be cuckolds who fantasise and yet do not know how to behave to get there. I also know there are a lot of 'Bulls' who have no other objective than to have a quick fuck and move on.
You Sir seem to be a shining example to all and I really do wish we lived close. Im in the UK and have a girlfriend who is open to all this but so far we live apart and have had as many have had, a rather tough and very different year. I would really like to talk with you and hope we can chat.
Respectfully,
Gavin

Dear Gavin

your message shows that you are a good man. You are the shining example of what a cuckold personality should be about - polite, cordial and shows respect to Bulls. You are 100% correct, a lot of men want to label themselves as "bulls" but that's all it is- a label -- Real bulls have a persona - its more than just a big dick. And trust me, I was not even aware that I had a big dick growing up. I am a unique bull. More unique than most people could ever imagine. For me, I am not interested in sex -- unless a woman piques my interest. And my interest does not get piqued through photos or videos. I want devotion, worship, adulation, adoration - I want a woman to respect me and put me on a pedestal. Yes, the roles are completely reversed for a lot of men -- a lot of men place women on this higher ground -- that's where I like to be. It's what led me to bdsm and the understanding of the Dominant role, it's what led me to cuckolding, and its what led me to coaching and helping others, especially couples.

there are things Gavin you can do with your gf that don't require a bull for physical sex. cuckolding is a state of mind- which means that your gf can cuckold you with or without a bull.

 

[hungteacher]

may i ask what you expect from a man who is a cuckold, i know what i would do if i was with you and another woman

Thanks for the question If I get enough followers, I might start a new thread just for Ask the Teacher about cuckolding, being a bull, being a dom and how to start cuckolding relationships.

but in answer to your question, the tail end of it is the problematic piece.. If I am introducing you to a woman -- then you are not the cuckold any longer. You are just a sub or slave to my world, which means that you have no say, no power, no control. If I introduce you to the woman, I honestly don't care if you are having a good time or your needs are being met -- your whole purpose is to serve me and my needs. If you want to be a slave to a Bull or a Dom - then that is the arrangement you should pursue.

But if you want to be a cuckold, you need to introduce me to a woman. You need to have contact and connection with the woman first- and by introducing her to me - I am thus cuckolding you. Your friendship and/or relationship with that woman is then altered by me and my presence. If you introduce me to a female friend that you like - me having sex with her - changes her perception of you immediately and any "fairy tale" romantic notions that may have existed before me having sex with her - are now gone.

This is the key take-away. If you are single or unattached and want to be a cuckold - I suggest making profiles on every available dating app, and befriending a real bull in your local area ASAP. You need to have a friendship with that bull - every single chat and conversation you have with a woman on a dating app needs to have this theme "I think you are really nice and I would like to know how I could make your life better."

Here are questions I recommend asking women on dating apps
1. "What's the 1 thing you hate - that guys do all the time on dating apps?"
2. "Do you have an idea what a perfect boyfriend to you looks like?
3. "How much emotional space do you like to have in a relationship?
4. "are you comfortable in large groups or smaller groups?
5. how comfortable are you sharing intimate details about your relationships and sex life with friends?
6. do you think you are closed-off or exploratory when it comes to sex and relationships?
7. do you think you have lived a wild or conservative life in terms of relationships and sex?
8. have you ever liked the same person as a friend? And if yes, did that person choose you or your friend? how did that make you feel?

 

[tomtomjim]

Thanks for the question If I get enough followers, I might start a new thread just for Ask the Teacher about cuckolding, being a bull, being a dom and how to start cuckolding relationships.

but in answer to your question, the tail end of it is the problematic piece.. If I am introducing you to a woman -- then you are not the cuckold any longer. You are just a sub or slave to my world, which means that you have no say, no power, no control. If I introduce you to the woman, I honestly don't care if you are having a good time or your needs are being met -- your whole purpose is to serve me and my needs. If you want to be a slave to a Bull or a Dom - then that is the arrangement you should pursue.

But if you want to be a cuckold, you need to introduce me to a woman. You need to have contact and connection with the woman first- and by introducing her to me - I am thus cuckolding you. Your friendship and/or relationship with that woman is then altered by me and my presence. If you introduce me to a female friend that you like - me having sex with her - changes her perception of you immediately and any "fairy tale" romantic notions that may have existed before me having sex with her - are now gone.

This is the key take-away. If you are single or unattached and want to be a cuckold - I suggest making profiles on every available dating app, and befriending a real bull in your local area ASAP. You need to have a friendship with that bull - every single chat and conversation you have with a woman on a dating app needs to have this theme "I think you are really nice and I would like to know how I could make your life better."

Here are questions I recommend asking women on dating apps
1. "What's the 1 thing you hate - that guys do all the time on dating apps?"
2. "Do you have an idea what a perfect boyfriend to you looks like?
3. "How much emotional space do you like to have in a relationship?
4. "are you comfortable in large groups or smaller groups?
5. how comfortable are you sharing intimate details about your relationships and sex life with friends?
6. do you think you are closed-off or exploratory when it comes to sex and relationships?
7. do you think you have lived a wild or conservative life in terms of relationships and sex?
8. have you ever liked the same person as a friend? And if yes, did that person choose you or your friend? how did that make you feel?

in my opinion a woman makes a cuckold and her husband has no choice and neither does the bull, as a cuckold i can be required to service you or others as you and my wife see fit. The wife owns and controls what the cuckold does. To ask a man to let himself be a cuck to a woman is one thing but to ask him to submit to you is another

 

[cuckarabic]

hey
i'm a single cuck right now,, i used to be cuckolded in real life by my ex gf back at the university 15 years ago btw i'm 37 yo now n i was single since then n i missed thoses beautiful days so much, i'm really getting to the point to start a serious relationship which leads to marriage. it has been a long time that i'm looking for my second part without success i guess duo to my race n location. finally i'd love to thank u for helping us cucks n spreading cuckolding love lifestyle.

 

[hungteacher]

in my opinion a woman makes a cuckold and her husband has no choice and neither does the bull, as a cuckold i can be required to service you or others as you and my wife see fit. The wife owns and controls what the cuckold does. To ask a man to let himself be a cuck to a woman is one thing but to ask him to submit to you is another

While I appreciate your answer and thoughtful response - I must retort with this "I don't really understand what you are saying?"
So I can't respond directly to what you wrote - since I don't really get it.
I will further clarify my point, since you may have misunderstood what I was saying. And two misunderstandings don't make an ah-ha moment.

What I was attempting to convey, and maybe poorly, was that a single man is not a cuckold. A single man that joins a couple is not a cuckold. A single man --therefore is someone who is a "wannabe" and there are many of them on this site. I am not sure what your personal situation is but if you do not have a gf/wife/or friend -- you are not and will never be a cuckold in that relationship status.

Cuckolding requires a woman and 2nd man. That's the nature of the relationship. The dynamic inside the cuckolding relationship varies and I was not speaking to that point. I have spent the last 10 years coaching couples and there are thousands of permutations that can be discussed and implemented.

Thus I am hopefully speaking to all the single men on this site that want to live this life -- for you men -- this message is for you. You must have a connection with a woman -- prior to bringing in the 2nd man. If you join a couple, that is not cuckolding. Thats just fantasy play. If that is what you want -- that's fine - no judgment -- but it's not cuckolding.

And that was the only point I was trying to make. @Tom, I dont understand the point you were trying to convey, so if you want to clarify, please feel free.

 

[tomtomjim]

While I appreciate your answer and thoughtful response - I must retort with this "I don't really understand what you are saying?"
So I can't respond directly to what you wrote - since I don't really get it.
I will further clarify my point, since you may have misunderstood what I was saying. And two misunderstandings don't make an ah-ha moment.

What I was attempting to convey, and maybe poorly, was that a single man is not a cuckold. A single man that joins a couple is not a cuckold. A single man --therefore is someone who is a "wannabe" and there are many of them on this site. I am not sure what your personal situation is but if you do not have a gf/wife/or friend -- you are not and will never be a cuckold in that relationship status.

Cuckolding requires a woman and 2nd man. That's the nature of the relationship. The dynamic inside the cuckolding relationship varies and I was not speaking to that point. I have spent the last 10 years coaching couples and there are thousands of permutations that can be discussed and implemented.

Thus I am hopefully speaking to all the single men on this site that want to live this life -- for you men -- this message is for you. You must have a connection with a woman -- prior to bringing in the 2nd man. If you join a couple, that is not cuckolding. Thats just fantasy play. If that is what you want -- that's fine - no judgment -- but it's not cuckolding.

And that was the only point I was trying to make. @Tom, I dont understand the point you were trying to convey, so if you want to clarify, please feel free.

i agree to be a cuckold a woman needs to own you and then have you accept her fucking other men. I am a man who has been totally cuckolded

 

[ptplguy]

Hello

So briefly. About Me: I am an very experienced Bull and Trainer. I have taught many cuckolds how to develop these relationships from being single, to dating to more LTR dynamics. I have also helped married cuckolds with "taking" their wives from newbies to full on cock sluts.

I am seeking for right now- Only cuckolds, either single or married, its ok. Its ok if you have zero experience. I do not want any men that are going to be "afraid" to meet up. If you can't admit that while reading that don't worry, because I will screen you and you will not be able to hide from me. So just be aware that I will vet out any fantasy chat or bs. If you are serious about this contact me.

I am doing a 3way chat right now, I am training a young lady about hung dick and im allowing a Manhattan based cuckold to observe my training of her. I'll be honest, he isn't taking full advantage of this opportunity, which is so typical of you cuckold guys. You just get so "spoiled" with your privileged lives.

Couple on Jersey Shore would love to chat. Kik is beachcoupleppl