An open letter to all members - a real member / admin commentary.

We think folks fake cuz they are 100% totally frustrated. Or they have a new hobby called collecting pictures from folks who are going to send them real pics.

But I wonder why people fake !!! The internet is full of free porn and for those fakers who just like to masturbate they can go through all those sites and masturbate but not to cheat others.........We are here for one purpose, we need a good fuck......personally I am not looking for love......I am married and I have ******* but hubby can't satisfy me therefore I am looking for some black studs to satisfy me sexually either on one night stand system or on regular meeting system, no money involved and only body to body interaction .....no cyber sex but real sex that's why I am surprised to see such fakers here who are not serious to meet, why did they join the site?
 
do any of you have any advice for my wife and myself in terms of what to look for with someone who might be a fake? It's hard to know sometimes, and we get lots of messages from people who are unverified and seem nice, but it's hard to trust. Any tips would be appreciated.

I will say just engage them a conversation,
they usually sound stupid,
they are easily offended,
...you get my drift
 
do any of you have any advice for my wife and myself in terms of what to look for with someone who might be a fake? It's hard to know sometimes, and we get lots of messages from people who are unverified and seem nice, but it's hard to trust. Any tips would be appreciated.

If you want to quickly verify someone's authenticity, ask them for a photo holding a dated item. It can be a periodical or whatever. Either that or simply ask them to write their screen name and the current date on a piece of paper and take a pic of them holding it. Then have them send the photo to you via email or IM. If they're unwilling, they're not really worth the effort. I can't take credit for this idea. There's a rather notorious adult website that allows people to verify their authenticity in a similar manner.

As far as the fake couples, if I can't speak to the female, it is immediately suspect.
 
do any of you have any advice for my wife and myself in terms of what to look for with someone who might be a fake? It's hard to know sometimes, and we get lots of messages from people who are unverified and seem nice, but it's hard to trust. Any tips would be appreciated.

We just ignore anyone without the "Real Person" marker cause we got tired of all the bs messages
 
thanks a lot, real people. I too, like you, have no idea what the fakers are really up to when they come on the site and do the things that they do. I don't get it at all.
 
This is a white pussy, with her legs spread wide... how many guys on here want to fuck it?

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* I hate to be like this, but it pains me to see how stupid guys are on here to fawn over any web photo of some "white girl" or any "pussy" posted on here. (hence the stupid photo - see above if you missed it)

www.images.google.com can save you a world of trouble... check it out, do some research.
*If it seems too good to be be true, or fake, it probably is..

I know I'm "Admin" and a huge contributor and 100% real BTW.. but it makes my head hurt to see how many members comment or like any obvious FAKE photo or member profiles and thread posts.

Hint #1 - if a hot blond avatar (a white girl with 4 black dicks in her mouth) or member profile posts a face picture a white girl (with 4 black dicks in her mouth) and says she loves BBC.. she is FAKE.
I hate to bust your bubble, but 99% of hot wives that like BBC aren't posting their face pictures for the entire web / world to see. (once again check images.google.com) - But I bet some are 100% real like i.e @Harmoni California for example.

Hint #2 - see hint #1

Guys - please get a grip, and not of your penis at 2am.. catch your breath and take a dose of reality before y0u post some grammatically incorrect, incoherent, drunken, one-handed comment. (Id fuk dat white grl cunt) is not acceptable and will NOT get you laid.. even if you somehow thought it would.
Yes, there are some great swingers, hot wives, Queen of Spades, Size Queen loving wives, girlfriends and single females (we know many). but they are most likely NOT posting their face / bikini pictures on their avatars. (or any other posting for that matter)... OK maybe @LebanonBBCLover is the exception to the rule) ~we're a fan.

I love this site, and we have been in the swinger / BBC lifestyle for many, many years.. but there are more fakes than real on here.. if it needs to be said louder for those in the back row or not paying attention - THERE ARE MORE FAKES ON HERE THAN REAL.

Let's enjoy the site for what it is.. a lifestyle fantasy, free IR porn, potential (highly unlikely) hook-up, IR outlet, wet dream, wanna-be-cuckold, dumping ground for everything black and white / IR related we find exciting, and that is great..

Stop posting a wife you do not have and a dick you wish you had and a let's keep it real!
*Fuck, even 50% real would be better than what we have..

PS - Please please please check posting dates.. if the member hasn't been on in 5 years or their most recent posting is from 2012, just move on... find something more recent to post your stupid / rude comment on... that will surely get you laid.

@MacNfries ~ please chime in here.. your comments are priceless.
@FunnyBunny ~ your hard work and attention to this site is second to none.. without you, well, this site would be crap. (that's english for *******!)
Reading this makes me wish there was a 'love' button. One of the best pieces of writing on this entire site. Should be required reading for all who join. Kudos to you for this. Thank you.
 
I almost lost my position and standing when a couple outed me on the net and showed my face and the rest of me. Have been very careful when meeting with couples and in some cases were unable to meet others due to this. I still enjoy chatting with couples and have sexy chats with others from time to time. I like enhancing a couple's relationship rather than hurt it.
 
What you have experienced is quite normal for the I-Net. Been there many times, arrangements made for sure and it's never happened. But don't give up the ship as ya never know what's around the next corner.

We've been trying to arrange a gloryhole BBC session since we joined in October. We have conversations going with about 30 different accounts, still took months to get just 3 to commit to a time and date (today) and then nobody showed up. Very disappointing conclusion to a hell of a lot of planning.

1) Is that typical, or just bad luck?

2) Any suggestions on how we can improve our odds of actually hooking up with a real person?

3) Or is this maybe not the right site to try to arrange an actual, in-person fuck? Is there a better site anyone can recommend?

Feeling pretty discouraged, and would greatly appreciate any advice before we think about making another attempt.
 
Meet in person in a safe place (restaurant) early. Then, play in a dungeon or other sex positive place with rules.
 
It's absolutely RE-DICK-YOU-Less! SMH in so many ways it's not even remotely amusing. And no pics, fake pics and gay guys on here pretending to be a couple or any female on here is down right PATHETIC!!! And I'm going to post something in regards to that in a few minutes.

" If they make contact with no profile and can't provide an authentic picture , within a reasonable time period online, well obviously they're using the time to play you for a fool. A lack of timely response, means gears are being set up in motion. Deceiver's and Manipulators need time to execute a strategy or plan and that's their mistake! BLOCK THEM IMMEDIATELY!

sigh.. Oh how I adore the digital age where identifying genuineness has become more complex and difficult as we dumb down the masses coming into anew.

Skype will ******* all curiosities and suspicions as well as videos and voices.✌ Ciao 4 now! ;)
 
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After talking to numerous people you will start noticing certain RED FLAGS. They appear often and early! Personally, I'd be wary of any men who do NOT have photos of themselves with women. The 'solo guy' would be my first indication of a fake. I just think any man worht his weight in cock should have a least ONE 'action shot'???

As for authentication? Like Brotha Bobby Long said above - NOTHING beats a good Skype session!

That, plus the proliferation of photos and videos of the BBC in action. :devil: :blackgreedy:
 
I agree with all the comments and insights. I have been extremely cautious because many on here are looking for a cheap thrill or fakes/liars. As a mature, well educated, and sincere Black Dominant gentleman Bull, I have the luxury to be selective. I know my worth. I know there are like minded couples and females that want to explore.

BlkGent
 

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This is a white pussy, with her legs spread wide... how many guys on here want to fuck it?

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* I hate to be like this, but it pains me to see how stupid guys are on here to fawn over any web photo of some "white girl" or any "pussy" posted on here. (hence the stupid photo - see above if you missed it)

www.images.google.com can save you a world of trouble... check it out, do some research.
*If it seems too good to be be true, or fake, it probably is..

I know I'm "Admin" and a huge contributor and 100% real BTW.. but it makes my head hurt to see how many members comment or like any obvious FAKE photo or member profiles and thread posts.

Hint #1 - if a hot blond avatar (a white girl with 4 black dicks in her mouth) or member profile posts a face picture a white girl (with 4 black dicks in her mouth) and says she loves BBC.. she is FAKE.
I hate to bust your bubble, but 99% of hot wives that like BBC aren't posting their face pictures for the entire web / world to see. (once again check images.google.com) - But I bet some are 100% real like i.e @Harmoni California for example.

Hint #2 - see hint #1

Guys - please get a grip, and not of your penis at 2am.. catch your breath and take a dose of reality before y0u post some grammatically incorrect, incoherent, drunken, one-handed comment. (Id fuk dat white grl cunt) is not acceptable and will NOT get you laid.. even if you somehow thought it would.
Yes, there are some great swingers, hot wives, Queen of Spades, Size Queen loving wives, girlfriends and single females (we know many). but they are most likely NOT posting their face / bikini pictures on their avatars. (or any other posting for that matter)... OK maybe @LebanonBBCLover is the exception to the rule) ~we're a fan.

I love this site, and we have been in the swinger / BBC lifestyle for many, many years.. but there are more fakes than real on here.. if it needs to be said louder for those in the back row or not paying attention - THERE ARE MORE FAKES ON HERE THAN REAL.

Let's enjoy the site for what it is.. a lifestyle fantasy, free IR porn, potential (highly unlikely) hook-up, IR outlet, wet dream, wanna-be-cuckold, dumping ground for everything black and white / IR related we find exciting, and that is great..

Stop posting a wife you do not have and a dick you wish you had and a let's keep it real!
*Fuck, even 50% real would be better than what we have..

PS - Please please please check posting dates.. if the member hasn't been on in 5 years or their most recent posting is from 2012, just move on... find something more recent to post your stupid / rude comment on... that will surely get you laid.

@MacNfries ~ please chime in here.. your comments are priceless.
@FunnyBunny ~ your hard work and attention to this site is second to none.. without you, well, this site would be crap. (that's english for *******!)
I've discovered so many fake women and men here..........mostly guys pretending to be women and that's ashame really........how can we get rid of those stupid wankers? Also some of the ladies here are not real but their husbands or BF post on their behalf without them being aware of it...........another big problem in this site.I think there should be some kind of rules that in couples, wives should post their own pics not their husbands so that at least we all know that wives knew what is being posted on their behalf. I know it is very difficult to find out who is posting but there should be some ways to do that in a very professional way.
We are all sick of fake people here and we want to get rid of them as soon as possible and without cooperating with each other and reporting such fakes, we can succeed in kicking them out.
 
There are some quality single men here because I have found them!
With that being said, I do have to wade through the BS artist white guy with black dick pics and the husband living vicariously through the real wife escapades that post to their profile as I do, these guys have got to Finally...bring the subject up to their wives or just go look at some videos! I am here to find a few select men who might enjoy a mature housewife and not here to chat or have phone sex with some downtrodden white guy in a soul-less marriage. Good luck to all of you lovely ladies who know how a BBC feels and I hope you have many more adventures!
 
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Why pick on just the guys? I'm sure there's lots of women drooling over huge cocks that are just lifted from porn sites
 
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