Advice needed from experienced couples/hotwives

[clebbccouple]

My wife and I recently came the closest we've ever been to our first BBC hotwife experience then it suddenly fizzled out. Here's a rundown of the past year or so:

• A couple years ago I mentioned that I'd love to see get fucked by BBC. At first it was more of a threesome fantasy that evolved into me just watching her.
• She was turned on to the idea and we became a verified couple on B2W
• We started to watch a ton of interracial porn together and talked nasty about our BBC fantasy during sex. She even admitted to going on a date with a black guy back when we first started dating and kept it a secret this whole time.
• We joined a paid swingers site to meet verified single males. After going through a few profiles she started messaging with a guy out in PA. She eventually gave out her number and moved the conversation to text and a "first date" was set
• Out of nowhere she said that it was moving to fast and not sure if she wanted to go through with it. She asked the guy to stop texting and we haven't really mentioned it.

Does anyone have a similar experience and if so, what advice do you have? I want to make this happen and deep down I think she does too.

 

[Hotwife Brazil]

Hey man! I think this is more common than it seems. Although his wife likes the idea of having a Black lover, this situation is very complicated.
From our experience, what usually happens is that many wives are afraid to end the marriage because of the cuckold bid. It's natural.
I think what she needs now is to be sure of her husband's feelings. You need to encourage her to show that you are complicit in this fantasy.
Ps: I'm not very good in English. I hope you understood.

 

[beenblackened]

You need to make sure that this is what you and her both want and to encourage her that it will not hurt your relationship and that you love her and make her comfortable. You can also have her message me and her and I could chat about it.

 

[Kyra]

She asked the guy to stop texting and we haven't really mentioned it.

Talk to her about it. Why ask us when you can get to the bottom of it with her. Be supportive regardless of whether she wants to go through with it or not. It may be more exciting for her when it was just fantasy and the thought of it becoming reality scares her. It is a great sign that you have been able talk about your fantasies openly already, just keep that communication going and that will help determine your next step!

 

[clebbccouple]

Thanks for the advice everyone! I'll let her know that she can direct messsage you to chat more

 

[Ann4BBC]

I think, from what you say, she definitely is interested, but it can be a nervous thing when you start. I remember when I started trying to talk in a flirty and naughty way to guys who were contacting me on the phone from dating sites and I got flustered and put the phone down. And I had actually gone with a couple of guys I'd met in bars and yet I was still nervous!
To go from faithful wife to acting the slut is a big step. I've even Skyped guys just in my stockings and talked to guys to try and get them to pay for tit implants! Now that's stressful! But it's worth it in the end!