Addicted to IR porn

MacNfries

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#2
i find my self constantly looking at interracial porn. I love seeing a black man fuck a white wife. Im hoping to one day watch my wife fuck a black man...how many of you are also addicted?
Porn is sorta like a drug habit ... the longer you use it, the more it often takes to keep reaching those "highs". Here's an interesting article worth reading ... I saw myself in this as well.

http://www.examiner.com/article/psychological-effects-of-pornography-addiction
 

LeeandJen

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#4
Porn is sorta like a drug habit ... the longer you use it, the more it often takes to keep reaching those "highs". Here's an interesting article worth reading ... I saw myself in this as well.

http://www.examiner.com/article/psychological-effects-of-pornography-addiction
Mac, you seem to be all over the site. Flipping through the other night I saw where someone pasted a link to a video with a "crew" or something similar that had a beautiful Latino chick and a group of guys. It was In response to a discussion about some "rough" videos. Do you remember it? Or anyone else for that matter, thanks. I am sure Jen will like it.
 

MacNfries

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Mac, you seem to be all over the site. Flipping through the other night I saw where someone pasted a link to a video with a "crew" or something similar that had a beautiful Latino chick and a group of guys. It was In response to a discussion about some "rough" videos. Do you remember it? Or anyone else for that matter, thanks. I am sure Jen will like it.
Hi LeeandJen; I usually only post in one of 5-6 sections ... Gen Discussion, Cuck Forum, Interracial Cuck&Sex Stories, Extreme Cuck, Off Topic (mostly political), and IR Sex Photos.
But, I do recall a couple threads specific to rough videos, and in fact I believe I posted on one or both .. but been a while. Could you explain "video with a "crew" or something similar that had a beautiful Latino chick and a group of guys."?
A better description of the video topic maybe?
I'd start in "Extreme Cuckold" and "General Discussion" sections if you're looking for something specific ... or do a name/phrase description search.
 

LeeandJen

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Hi LeeandJen; I usually only post in one of 5-6 sections ... Gen Discussion, Cuck Forum, Interracial Cuck&Sex Stories, Extreme Cuck, Off Topic (mostly political), and IR Sex Photos.
But, I do recall a couple threads specific to rough videos, and in fact I believe I posted on one or both .. but been a while. Could you explain "video with a "crew" or something similar that had a beautiful Latino chick and a group of guys."?
A better description of the video topic maybe?
I'd start in "Extreme Cuckold" and "General Discussion" sections if you're looking for something specific ... or do a name/phrase description search.
It seemed like the group of guys had a name, like something crew or BBC group. They had her surrounded taking them all on and the were being vocal and she was enjoying. I thought the link had the word Latino in it but I haven't found it in a search yet. But I haven't quite got the site search aspects down yet.
 

LeeandJen

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Hi LeeandJen; I usually only post in one of 5-6 sections ... Gen Discussion, Cuck Forum, Interracial Cuck&Sex Stories, Extreme Cuck, Off Topic (mostly political), and IR Sex Photos.
But, I do recall a couple threads specific to rough videos, and in fact I believe I posted on one or both .. but been a while. Could you explain "video with a "crew" or something similar that had a beautiful Latino chick and a group of guys."?
A better description of the video topic maybe?
I'd start in "Extreme Cuckold" and "General Discussion" sections if you're looking for something specific ... or do a name/phrase description search.
I found it in the "Bull Videos" duh. The group bull royality
 

mywayintermsofsex

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#8
Porn is sorta like a drug habit ... the longer you use it, the more it often takes to keep reaching those "highs". Here's an interesting article worth reading ... I saw myself in this as well.

http://www.examiner.com/article/psychological-effects-of-pornography-addiction
Thank you Mac for the link. It`s an interesting read. Although ImO it has its flaws too.

It is about "porn addictions" and "internet porn" without a closer definition thereof. Also, despite the fact the author is not specifically talking about a certain sex/gender it seems clear the article is about "male porn addiction" only. (Would be interesting what the effects of regular "use" of porn are on a woman, though.) Some researchers talk more generally, others directly refer to heterosexual men. Also ImO it should be considered to differentiate between an "addiction" and an "obsession". Plus, many of the symptoms are related to a greater field of addictions including others, like "(computer) gaming", "internet addiction (without the porn)", "social media addiction", a.s.o.

ImO the assumption that an "excessive viewing" of internet pornography produces social anxiety is most of all wrong, although you may find a high(er) percentage of "porn users" that have such anxieties. i think in most cases those anxieties have been there already before that person starts watching porn. Porn - like other activities as well, including (computer) gaming, for instance - may serve as a surrogate for social interactions for people that have problems in this field.

i would assume myself an "internet porn addict" although i am not obsessed with it. i`ve been using internet porn for several (10+) years now, and haven`t encountered the following (yet):

* social anxiety
* lack of confidence
* erectile dysfunction
* decrease in interest in "real" women
...and the list goes on.

But i have encountered the symptom of concentration problems recently, but that may have other reasons as well.

Maybe i am just not that addicted? ;)
 
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does anyone think that watching IR porn can become addictive?
Think? i know it can. ;) But being addicted is not the same as being obsessed! Even though there`s only a thin line between those two. *lol*
Me and my gf have started going down that path too, i guess. At least when we are together it is the type of porn we watch most frequently (by far).
Are you happy about that? I would!
Well, we are a playful couple. And yet, we haven`t let a third person into our sex life. It is kind of evolving, i would say...

She already mentioned that she likes the idea of having a threesome - her with two men - me plus one extra. We haven`t found the extra guy yet, but honestly, we were not seeking actively so far. Maybe that`s the next step?! Unfortunately our time is short these days. :(

i would really love to watch her experience some good sexual pleasure with another man. It`s not that i couldn`t satisfy her - i do. But i`d also like to see her from a different angle sometimes, and be surprised about what comes next. (When we have sex it`s typically me who takes the dominant part and "dictates directions", so most of all i am pretty aware of how our sexual play will develop.) Also, we have already "simulated" DPs with me and a dildo which makes my gf respond big time and i feel like now`s the time for the real thing.

i fancy the skin-to-skin contrast in black-on-white-ir type of porn. It is "more graphic" in my book, especially when the flick/lighting is of poor quality. A couple where both have about the same skin complexion visually almost appears as one body as opposed to two people having sex. IR scenes are more explicit in this respect. At least from my p.o.v. and i always thought it is just me, but had to find out recently it`s my gf (who happens to be "white") too.

When "it happened" for the first time that we watched an ir tube clip she extraordinarily got off on it while keeping her eyes fixed to the screen - not her usual reaction to any other kind of porn. ;) We repeated it many more times since, and, as i said, it turned out to be the number one type of porn we watch when we are together.

And yes, we are happy. :D