A Question
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NO! This should be you watching!
Let's say your wife has a Volvo and she is a safe and conservative driver but now you want her to experience the power and the thrill of driving some American muscle like a Ford Shelby GT500 and let her hair down a bit. Well you definitely don't want to just show up to the test track saying "surprise honey your gonna be driving this beast today"! That would not be cool!
It's ok to want her to experience test driving something new and exciting but remember she would be taking almost all the risk, so what does she want? In the lifestyle everything has to be about us and not just me!
It's not that I'm going to tell her here have sex with this guy of course I want her to be willing to try it.Let's say your wife has a Volvo and she is a safe and conservative driver but now you want her to experience the power and the thrill of driving some American muscle like a Ford Shelby GT500 and let her hair down a bit. Well you definitely don't want to just show up to the test track saying "surprise honey your gonna be driving this beast today"! That would not be cool!
It's ok to want her to experience test driving something new and exciting but remember she would be taking almost all the risk, so what does she want? In the lifestyle everything has to be about us and not just me!
The most important thing is that during the fantasy exchange discussion that you let your fantasy be known.
Tactic is the key. One guy who recently gave his wife her first dildo sex to said his wife ask "Is there a reason you chose a black one" with a smale on her face which tells him she's definitely curious and in a good position to take things in that direction.
I have always suggested that guys go the easiest route for testing the interracial waters is alcohol and interracial porn. Take her out on the town for a good date, get her nice and tipsy, when you get her home throw on some interracial porn and see what her reaction is?
1.Did she get more excited, wet, orgasmic than usual?
2.Did she get offended or grossed out?
3.If her reaction is #1 then ask her what she thinks about the guys big black cock and does she think she could handle a one that big?
4. If she says yes, then you can come straight out and tell her that your fantasy is to actually watch her do just that! Then see what she says?
Alcohol and interracial is the easiest way to at least gauge where she stands on the interracial sex of the lifestyle.
