I've been reading on this site for a little over 2 years and I've shared my fantasy of having my wife try some BBC, which in the end she expressed no desire to be shared with any man; only me. This is still a fantasy of mines, but if it is only to remain a fantasy, so be it. However, as I read more this forum, I've encountered that majority of the husbands here are very submissive, which is OK if that is what they want; not my cup of tea. But I have to ask, is the submissiveness limited to the bedroom (sex) or is it a submissive all around as part of their daily lives. I mean, who's in charge of the household, finances, raising children, future projections, ect? I find it hard to believe that the bull is in charge of everything including the husband/wife relationship no matter if it is a black bull, white bull, Latino bull or whatever. But I do see that some husbands here have accepted the roll of only bringing money in the household and nothing else. No appreciation from the wife, let alone any love or feelings. Can someone elaborate on this?