Just wondering if people would be interested in it. I've read a lot of forums. I got some good ideas from members about how to try and introduce her to the lifestyle to gauge if she's interested. Just curious if a play-by-play type thread would interest people, or if you think it's to intrusive and disrespectful to her to post. Granted it is fairly anonymous.
A play-by-play finding out if she's interested in bbc and the lifestyle.
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I was thinking about doing it. But no one replied until now. Lol
Could be interesting as long as it stays anonymous and her identity can't be discovered.
I think-it would be beneficial, as so many men are ruining their relationships trying to ******* their female partner into these scenarios. But the same holds true in the older female, she is wanting to venture this way, and her spouse isn't, and then they split because she is cheating behind his back.
I was played by my husband and friend, but was an interest of mine also, so it worked out in the long run for us, but not always the out come in must cases.
I would love to the best laid plans approach, as well as the cheating approach, were the woman succumbed to their desire and curiosity.
I was played by my husband and friend, but was an interest of mine also, so it worked out in the long run for us, but not always the out come in must cases.
I would love to the best laid plans approach, as well as the cheating approach, were the woman succumbed to their desire and curiosity.
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Every man/woman/relationship is different.
Watching porn together and letting her pick out and she picks out anything bbc related, even if she says it's jokingly...chances are high she's into it and gauging your reaction. If it's your turn to pick, again, you can jokingly do it or somewhat serious and gauge her reaction. If she continues to watch, finds it hot etc, the seed is planted. Easy.
Same goes when entering a sex shop (real or online).
I'd like to see the play-by-play though.
What I've seen written here by many men, saying they tell a bull his wife is going to be at bar x or whatever and he should try and seduce her because he has no other way of telling her, I can't see that working in any conceivable way and it seems like it would be a huge waste of time on everyones part.
Watching porn together and letting her pick out and she picks out anything bbc related, even if she says it's jokingly...chances are high she's into it and gauging your reaction. If it's your turn to pick, again, you can jokingly do it or somewhat serious and gauge her reaction. If she continues to watch, finds it hot etc, the seed is planted. Easy.
Same goes when entering a sex shop (real or online).
I'd like to see the play-by-play though.
What I've seen written here by many men, saying they tell a bull his wife is going to be at bar x or whatever and he should try and seduce her because he has no other way of telling her, I can't see that working in any conceivable way and it seems like it would be a huge waste of time on everyones part.
A few pointers I picked up on when we started down this road... A lot of this is hindsight. And our situation is not really a cuckold one... We are more of the stag/vixen type... So keep that in mind when reading the following:
• She has to "believe" that sex is enjoyable. If sex has been lackluster for her entire life she isn't going to be interested... Kay's experiences were mostly pretty shitty before me. Most guys were bumbling idiots who didn't know how to make a woman orgasm. I gave her lots of orgasms and even made her start squirting... Once she realized how good it could be, she realized it could be even better and became interested in extramarital activities. If she knows sex is fun, she'll be more open to making it more fun.
• I believe she also thought I would be insecure and threatened. Once it dawned on her that I really was cool with it, she relaxed and started looking at it differently. I still do most of the "casting" for prospective "suitors." But she has started to take more initiative and now routinely handles the "interviews" to make the final call on whether or not she wants to meet and fuck a guy.
I realize competence and confidence are not the hallmarks of being a cuckold husband... But if you can get her started then you can both take the fun in the direction you desire.
She has to understand that sex can be fun and that she won't lose what she has. Once she knows sex can be the most enjoyable activity ever... She will be more open-minded about watching porn, playing with a big dildo, and all the other baby steps.
I'm sure there is more. But that's a good start.
J&K
• She has to "believe" that sex is enjoyable. If sex has been lackluster for her entire life she isn't going to be interested... Kay's experiences were mostly pretty shitty before me. Most guys were bumbling idiots who didn't know how to make a woman orgasm. I gave her lots of orgasms and even made her start squirting... Once she realized how good it could be, she realized it could be even better and became interested in extramarital activities. If she knows sex is fun, she'll be more open to making it more fun.
• I believe she also thought I would be insecure and threatened. Once it dawned on her that I really was cool with it, she relaxed and started looking at it differently. I still do most of the "casting" for prospective "suitors." But she has started to take more initiative and now routinely handles the "interviews" to make the final call on whether or not she wants to meet and fuck a guy.
I realize competence and confidence are not the hallmarks of being a cuckold husband... But if you can get her started then you can both take the fun in the direction you desire.
She has to understand that sex can be fun and that she won't lose what she has. Once she knows sex can be the most enjoyable activity ever... She will be more open-minded about watching porn, playing with a big dildo, and all the other baby steps.
I'm sure there is more. But that's a good start.
J&K
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