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I’m happy to discuss lifestyle questions and such with anyone looking for genuine information and not just “fantasy fuel”. I’m only semi-active in the lifestyle right now but having been involved for well into double digit years, I can certainly help with questions, stumbling blocks, what to...

There have been a few but hottest was the first night my ex-wife and I opened our relationship. My best friend had left after spending a good portion of the evening fucking my ex and we were having some great reclaim sex and I asked: Me: “Is he bigger than I am?” (Knowing full well the answer”...

Also one of the best “no bs” posts I’ve seen written on the site! Well written and excellent points.

I used the completely outlandish concept of actually talking with my gf about it. As I’ve had open relationships previously, one of the things I wanted to do was be completely honest with my gf right out of the gate. Yes I was totally freaked that she might react negatively to the concept but...

That right there is it!!

To be honest, if you can't communicate and be open with each other about what you want in the bedroom, this isn't for you. All fantasy crap aside, you need to be able to effectively communicate with your partner ESPECIALLY if you want to open up your relationship. If you think you can play...

Not for a long time. Most couples in the lifestyle don't want anyone knowing that they have an open relationship so highly doubt cuckolding (of any type) will become mainstream before being open about alternative lifestyles do.

Calgary as well here.

Depends on what is considered Humiliation I guess and the answer is probably different for everyone responding. A lot of my vanilla buddies can't fathom while I'm ok with my GF fucking other men. To them that would be humiliating. To me its just opening a door for something my partner wants...

New bulls condom is a must with us. Once we (after testing, overall attitude and “feel” of things) are comfortable then we prefer bareback but at the end of the day, everyone’s safety cums first!! 👍

Fucklicking is probably my favourite activity when I participate. I love being under my GF as I get the best of both worlds. I get to see closeup her being fucked with a big, thick cock; I get to lick her clit which drives her nuts and she can stroke or suck me at her pleasure. Finally cleanup...

100% in!

For those ladies that squirt and are tired of cleaning up the bedding, my girlfriend and I purchased a blanket aptly called “No More Wet Spot”. I don’t want to break any forum rules around product placement but google it. The blankets are very affordable and we initially purchased one and...

Most tattoo artists will do up a sketch for you and work with you to refine the design until it’s exactly what you want. You just need to find an artist who’s work fits the look and feel of what you are going for.

What does your wife say on the topic?

First, kudos to you for actually communicating with your spouse about opening up your relationship. Very refreshing. The fact that you have some anxiety and angst around the “the first time” is completely normal. The reality of that is that you won’t know if going down this rabbit hole is a...

Been there on both counts. Communication is great and recognizing/ addressing potential problems is also great but in my case the proof was in the act. We agreed to go forward and after the play dates to “debrief” as it were and have a discussion afterwards. It was more for her to see that my...

I/we have had some great conversations with vanilla friends and such around the lifestyle. There are so many myths and misconceptions and I’ve found people to be far more curious of how “it” all works over wanting penthouse letters style details of the experiences. I see both views on the...

I’ve always been open about being in the lifestyle. While I don’t walk around with a billboard, if anything lifestyle comes up in general conversation, I have no issues talking about it. All my friends know, a few current and previous co-workers, etc. Same held true with my all my partners...

Talk to her? If you are both in agreement that you want some spice then it should be a short path to discussing each of your potential fantasies. I would suggest laying down a ground rule that regardless of how “out there” your potential fantasies are, that you both agree not to judge but to...