For us it definitely took some time. That's was ok because we kinda started toward the idea together. But best time to bring it up as others have stated is when there's sexual arousal going on between you. My wife is very quiet about it still, very reserved now that we are in the lifestyle so...
Women are tricky. Definitely keep a positive reinforcement of the relationship, tell her you will never bring it up as a negative and that it's your idea. Also, that it just makes sense to have variety, that's how women were designed. Men and society tell them no their whole lives. We've been...
We think communication is of great importance. Everyone is different, but we don't want to share something this important with someone who will not put in the effort. It really makes for a more comfortable situation all around. We're all putting in a good deal of work to weed out fakes and...
It depends on the individual apparently. For us, repeated play with a larger guy had made a difference we can both feel. We are a very grounded couple who has a analytical approach to this even though it is a fantasy. I'm sure after time and excersize, it can return to it's normal state however...
I would say if your husband's into it do not deprive him of that first time especially if you guys have a good relationship. We have found that honesty is the most important part and sometimes that comes with patience too unfortunately on both ends. But only you to know and it doesn't hurt to...
One other note to answer the question. I think you'll have an easier time finding someone who is not in the lifestyle. Then you can take you time and go on this adventure together. Plus if you find a single woman into this lifestyle, she is less likely to be looking for someone, she will have...
It was my curiosity that led us into it, not hers. She was very vanilla, almost broke up with me when we first started dating for watching porn. I think it's all about honesty and for us about being matter of fact in the bed room. For example it started with toys, we noticed as we gradually...
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