Where to start with my wife?

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anthonytimmerm

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I'm 33 years old. My wife slightly older at 38. We're together now for 8 years and we have a ******* (6).
I've been fantasizing about hotwifing/cuckolding for a long time now, but nobody knows this. And I'm struggling to find a way to take the first step; I'm in need of help, suggestions and advise.

Basically my wife, 5"4 tall, slim (size 4), blonde, C-cup, and very hot (although I'm biased), before we got a relationship was not shy of being a single woman with (several) FWB situations going on. She's into the bad-boy kind of thing and has shared that in the past with a boyfriend she has done a MFM threesome.

I'm not of the bad-boy breed. A regular guy, well educated, entrepreneur, good job, very good income and in all aspects of what I do not considered "sub" or anything of the sort, but in general by all as very "reliable, trustworthy, etc.". Now after years of fooling around with not-marriage-material-guys, she settled down with me. Our relationship is generally good and strong.

Now, over the years her sex drive has gone down. Whereas at the beginning of our relationship we knew our way around the bedroom, we now have sex on average every other week or so. Not that often. The sex is good though, but more in the "making love" category, than "pounding, hardcore porno sex"... let's say the kind of sex she used to have with all her past FWB-types.


To cut to the chase, I'm a safe haven for her. We have a ******* and a family and she will not want to jeopardise that. When referring to her past threesome, she claims not really to be into that, because "it's a lot of work" for her. ;)

Now, I know I'm a very decent lover, but I'm not champions league. I think that for her that is absolutely fine and we have a good thing going, but given her past I think there is more beneath the surface that can come out if given the chance.

But, after the pregnancy of our ******* she gained weight and stopped finding herself attractive. Now, she's lost the extra weight (she's a size 4), but her stomach/belly is not as tight as it used to be and she's (unnecessarily) insecure about her body and still thinks she's not that good-looking when in reality she really is.
That is a blocking factor too... she will need to overcome showing her body to somebody else too.

So I see a route to market here... but have absolutely no idea how to initiate this.
How do I tell her about this?
What is a good context?
What is a good approach? For example, before taking steps to hotwifing/cuckolding, is a MFM threesome a lower threshold?

BTW: what I don't think will work, is stuff like a role-play. That's not our thing and I think it would be weirder to bring up that than the actual threesome :ROFLMAO:
And going out (bar's, cafe's) is difficult with our family situation and not generally part of our lifestyle.


So, I need help, suggestions and advise on how to iniate this. Are there any guys out there that have a similar experience? How did you do that? What was the response? etc.

All your stories and help is very much welcome.
 
Have you tried persuading her to go to a swingers club which are not the same as gentleman's club?s.
The first time, you can say that you're only going to play together and that your only going for the sexy atmosphere.

When you're at the swingers club, loosen her up with too many drinks or whatever.

Once she hammered, have her suck you where people can watch. While she's bent over sucking you, wave another guy over to watch. If she's turned on, ask the guy for some help turning her on by showing his cock to her or ask the guy to play with her breast or rubbing her ass.. If she's turned on at this point, try a split roast.
 

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MyQOSWife said:
Have you tried persuading her to go to a swingers club which are not the same as gentleman's club?s.
The first time, you can say that you're only going to play together and that your only going for the sexy atmosphere.

When you're at the swingers club, loosen her up with too many drinks or whatever.

Once she hammered, have her suck you where people can watch. While she's bent over sucking you, wave another guy over to watch. If she's turned on, ask the guy for some help turning her on by showing his cock to her or ask the guy to play with her breast or rubbing her ass.. If she's turned on at this point, try a split roast.
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thats how i did it with my ex in germany .
we both went there just to look or may let some others watch us .
unfortunately those clubs are not available here .
 
It is difficult for me to give you advice; as my wife fucked other guys on the first day of our honeymoon and there have been hundreds of others since. However, even a wife as slutty as mine starts feeling she is no longer attractive at a point in time. Lucky for me, one of my bisexual boyfriends, who was fucking my sissy's pussy at the time, also enjoyed fucking other men's wives. He told me that once a married slut, always a married slut. He offered to make a play toward my wife to back up his words. He, and some of his other local alpha-male friends, learned where she shopped, etc.; and set up scenarios where they could become "friendly" with her. About a month later, I got to watch him and 3 of his fellow studs fucking and breeding my wife on our martial bed. It might take some time, but if you put your mind to it, you can find similar studs in your neck of the woods.
 
NJamazoncuck said:
It is difficult for me to give you advice; as my wife fucked other guys on the first day of our honeymoon and there have been hundreds of others since. However, even a wife as slutty as mine starts feeling she is no longer attractive at a point in time. Lucky for me, one of my bisexual boyfriends, who was fucking my sissy's pussy at the time, also enjoyed fucking other men's wives. He told me that once a married slut, always a married slut. He offered to make a play toward my wife to back up his words. He, and some of his other local alpha-male friends, learned where she shopped, etc.; and set up scenarios where they could become "friendly" with her. About a month later, I got to watch him and 3 of his fellow studs fucking and breeding my wife on our martial bed. It might take some time, but if you put your mind to it, you can find similar studs in your neck of the woods.
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Thanks for your story. But surely even with your slutty wife, you started somewhere... did you bring up the fantasy?
 
anthonytimmerm said:
Thanks for your story. But surely even with your slutty wife, you started somewhere... did you bring up the fantasy?
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I have been fat and have had a tiny dick my whole life; it was only natural that I became a sissy queer. My wife was already fucking black men 4 years before we met. We met through a stud who was fucking both of us at the time. We believed that we had found our soul mate; got married and adopted a hot wife/sissy cuckold lifestyle. We will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary next year. What worked for us may not work for other couples.
 
Started with pictures he would take and share on sites to boost my confidence. Then I began to see the responses and my shyness turned to intrigue. I was fascinated with the contrast of black skin on white skin. I began to choose interracial porn and hubby picked up on it. He's of average size and after much thought, finally asked if I'd like to try a larger dick? So we bought toys just to see if it was something I could handle. Boy did I ever. Then it was just a matter of time before we found our first BBC. Then the second, and looking forward to the third. Or a gangbang
 
anthonytimmerm said:
I'm 33 years old. My wife slightly older at 38. We're together now for 8 years and we have a ******* (6).
I've been fantasizing about hotwifing/cuckolding for a long time now, but nobody knows this. And I'm struggling to find a way to take the first step; I'm in need of help, suggestions and advise.

Basically my wife, 5"4 tall, slim (size 4), blonde, C-cup, and very hot (although I'm biased), before we got a relationship was not shy of being a single woman with (several) FWB situations going on. She's into the bad-boy kind of thing and has shared that in the past with a boyfriend she has done a MFM threesome.

I'm not of the bad-boy breed. A regular guy, well educated, entrepreneur, good job, very good income and in all aspects of what I do not considered "sub" or anything of the sort, but in general by all as very "reliable, trustworthy, etc.". Now after years of fooling around with not-marriage-material-guys, she settled down with me. Our relationship is generally good and strong.

Now, over the years her sex drive has gone down. Whereas at the beginning of our relationship we knew our way around the bedroom, we now have sex on average every other week or so. Not that often. The sex is good though, but more in the "making love" category, than "pounding, hardcore porno sex"... let's say the kind of sex she used to have with all her past FWB-types.


To cut to the chase, I'm a safe haven for her. We have a ******* and a family and she will not want to jeopardise that. When referring to her past threesome, she claims not really to be into that, because "it's a lot of work" for her. ;)

Now, I know I'm a very decent lover, but I'm not champions league. I think that for her that is absolutely fine and we have a good thing going, but given her past I think there is more beneath the surface that can come out if given the chance.

But, after the pregnancy of our ******* she gained weight and stopped finding herself attractive. Now, she's lost the extra weight (she's a size 4), but her stomach/belly is not as tight as it used to be and she's (unnecessarily) insecure about her body and still thinks she's not that good-looking when in reality she really is.
That is a blocking factor too... she will need to overcome showing her body to somebody else too.

So I see a route to market here... but have absolutely no idea how to initiate this.
How do I tell her about this?
What is a good context?
What is a good approach? For example, before taking steps to hotwifing/cuckolding, is a MFM threesome a lower threshold?

BTW: what I don't think will work, is stuff like a role-play. That's not our thing and I think it would be weirder to bring up that than the actual threesome :ROFLMAO:
And going out (bar's, cafe's) is difficult with our family situation and not generally part of our lifestyle.


So, I need help, suggestions and advise on how to iniate this. Are there any guys out there that have a similar experience? How did you do that? What was the response? etc.

All your stories and help is very much welcome.
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A wise old cuck friend, in the days before online dating, said:”you can’t get ‘em fucked, if you can’t get ‘em out.” True then, and probably true now. Nearly all young women love to dance. And dancing leads to fucking! Set up a special date night. Drop the kiddo off at grandma’s for the night, and take her out to dinner, then to a nice club where there is a racially mixed clientele. Then get out of the way! Lol
 
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