Nice write up
@Nolathrowaway, I commend y'all for making this thread. It's long overdue.
Now for the rant.
So, I'm gonna dive into pretty much all the problems I have with this site's moderation and the people on it contributing to the issue in the OP. I don't play coy to the dynamics of this site. This is a safe space for snowflakes to enjoy the sexuality of black men and for black men it is a lane for them to make their blackness accessible for sexual gains. Have at it for the race play, the dynamic, the taboo and fantasy, for the white women or other ethnicities of women attracted to black men. I'm all for it, however, I think it can be done without the casual and not so casual racism. For those that don't engage with this in anyway this is not aimed towards you.
So for all of the salty racists on here who have tried doxxing me after I pissed them off and have made fake accounts to spam me endlessly, don't worry. I won't be here much longer because I know that nothing will change. I've met people I like and keep in touch with here and I'm content with that handful of good people.
No self respectful black man should tolerate half the garbage on here. Have some dignity for those of you who "don't care." If these people weren't engaging with for dick, how would they treat you in a neutral setting, your loved ones, and so on? What do you believe they think about black people outside of this thinly veiled fantasy version of you? They are people, just looking for sex/stimulation, just like you and I.
Some of the black men on here put white women/couples on this massive pedestal so it's not only those people perpetuating it. They cannot get laid worth a damn without using their blackness so they come on here and appease the white couples or white women because this is all the capital they have for getting pussy. They have this person they present to you to get laid but deep down theyre not truly ok with their blackness and only use it to get pussy.
I've pretty much made it a rule to no longer argue among black guys that do this or just black guys on here in general. Especially when it comes to these matters. It's a waste of mind share and my battle is with the people who clearly, unapologetically, repeat racist ideology and indulge in black dick. They are always quick to say, "how everything is racist now," instead of actually clearing themselves, acknowledging what is actually racist, or clarifying their messaging. It's hilarious.
Mods have been pretty spineless imo. They refuse to rock the boat or take a stance against... Well, anything that would make the site better. I thought if the black dudes on here collectively demand better it might change but guys are always going to choose their pussy pool which is fine with me. I'm more than fine with going elsewhere. This site can continue being this weird safe space for racist who think they're not racist because they live in the fantasy that is this site.
You basically validate her entire post and thus the reason for this thread. They didn't call you anything or accuse you of being racist, and instead of actually listening you indirectly defend the vile ******* that is said on this site at times.
Maybe you do not notice it because you're a white woman with her head in the sand. Maybe politically, you are biased, or discussing racism is uncomfortable for you. But some of the ******* said on here aren't just disagreeable opinions lol.
By reacting this way you're a prime example of why fuck all will change. There are literal COVID deniers and BLM conspiracy theorist on here and instead you're saying ridiculous silly things like "society should ban the word 'racism'" like the word n1gg3r even though that word was never really banned? And even after it became derogatory people had to find a new creative way to be racist. No functioning person is going to come out with a white hood yelling the N word, racism has changed and evolved with society.
So yeah, you're just spouting nonsense and defending a bunch miserable dickholes. You could've came in and said, "you know, sometimes awful things are said here in regards to black people, we can do better." But you said, "why is everything racist now? LET'S BAN THE WORD RACISM LIKE WE DID THE N WORD!" Except no word was ever banned and racism never went anywhere.