I Love it, too, who wouldn't? I also get a snicker when I see white guys, particularly white husbands, checking Brandi out when we're at happy hour and such. Hilarious because they have ZERO chance of getting a return glance, and I also point out the black men that checking her out so she can return the look. If she smiles, great, met some nice men that way. EVEN EASIER is when she smiles at him and I wave him over. HUGE green light if he's so inclined and able. We're going "hotwifing", an oldie but a goodie we haven't enjoyed in awhile, so she can get slutted up, me show her off at bar, make plenty of bathroom ttrips so she can tempt the men, and then ultimately end up letting her get cozy with BBC man of her choice while I sit confidently and make no big deal of it. She decides from there what she wants to do. Great italian lounge here in town, in the lobby of an upscale businees class hotel...guys travelling, hanging at the bar, you understand. I've introduced this strategy to a couple wives, in fact, works like a charm, gives everyone opp to small talk in safe public place, and if I get the pre-agreed upon sign from her, we'll get up with no fanfare and just head to the elevator as if we were staying there. He'll give us a minute and then meet up at the elevator door. THIS WORKS< people.