My hubby was the same. But I told him if we start we go full on. "It will be so much hotter". In the end I convinced him to just try it for a day or so. Then I played with him more, licked his balls. Get him used to the cage being a type of sexual fulfilment. Then, just quietly increase the time period. Longer. Longer. Until like Mike he now knows his place. It can be done xoxox JMy husband brought up the idea of caging him. I want him to do it, but now he it seems that he is getting cold feet. He still wants to masturbate at will, although he has happily accepted not having penetrative sex any longer.