Why is it so hard for some husbands to get their wife blacked?

Are you capable of forming a coherent sentence?
Technically you are correct that the views were not expressed in neat completed sentences. But the views were clearly and succinctly expressed and that rather than rules formulated by grammarians is the essence of language.
 
Would be nice indeed if women would act like you said. From years of experience I can confirm it does not work like that.

My wife for example has very selective taste. She does turn up only from very few men. They need to be exactly for her taste. Secondly women are so kind. My wife feels like even talking via internet with someone else feels like betraying me. What is good is that she loves to watch porn alone and with me. In porn it is always interracial as she thinks that sex looks the best when black man with big cock is fucking white woman.

Still despite of having talked for years and both are interested of the lifestyle she is too shy and does not want to do it now. Maybe later, what is later then? It is a long walk and probably won't happen for majority of the couples. Is it good or bad then? Well, can't say as never have tried.. Anyways it will never be humiliation or similar for us. We appreciate each other and would have a bbc who appreciates both of us and our marriage.

Hard to say what happens in the future. Maybe something, maybe not. She was almost registering to this forum but then backed off. Thinking this site is too perv. Not to say she is wrong, can see very twisted topics and postings here and there :)

You and your wife would be interested in a quality gentleman, who was black. One who can carry on an intelligent conversation, and has a good personality. One who can make you both laugh. There are, of course, quality white gentleman who meet the same criteria, but it’s just not the same. Black.
 
Why wouldn’t a woman instantly say yes to something like that?

Don’t most secretly crave and fantasize about black men?

Because some women take their wedding vows seriously. Marriage is sacred to some people. Not every woman will break her vows for a fling with another man. There are plenty of closed minded women out there too.
 
It's scary jump into lifestyle..people are crazy..some blacks are just
How is this post still up, while every other completely civil discussion I have been in recently about race has been deleted? If we can't discuss racial issues and ways to come together to fight racism on a site like this, then where?

Personally, I'm usually in favor of less censorship, so I'm not necessarily petitioning to have the quoted post above removed. If anything, maybe seeing ugly posts will show others who to steer clear of, or open the door to conversations that might better inform people's opinions. I'm just curious about how many people are seeing respectful conversations about racism getting deleted.

This is not my website and at the end of the day I'll abide by the rules and decisions of the staff here, but I wanted to say thank you to those who contributed to the thoughtful, sometimes uncomfortable, but (as far as I saw) cordial conversations we've seen recently. Black lives matter. We hope that's an acceptable thing to say here.
 
It isn't hard. It is only hard if the man of the couple is acting alone, and when the man of the couple doesn't have an eye on the female of the couple. The most important thing is love! The almost equal important thing is communication. Also it is her that needs to feel comfortable. Never *******! Communicate, give love and take care of her.
Well said! 👍
 
The reality is, humans have never been monogamous and we are not naturally in any way. Even those who talk about our "grandparents generation" who stayed together long time and so in-love, many of the men still cheated. Both my grandparents stayed together all their lives but both my grandfathers also had ******* with outside women secretly that we found out later. This is not a Black thing or gender thing either. Its across all social structures.

I know white families who have recently found out that their female matriarchs were young Freedom Riders in Alabama in the early sixties -- and they weren't just riding the busses. :qos: These matriarchs are starting to tell their IR stories. The young white girls in the families, who like to think that they are cutting edge, are shocked that great-granny was Blacked so long ago. But the grainy Polaroids prove it.

So when it comes to being "Blacked" its no different. From my experience is the woman going through conflict mentally to internally tear down everything shes been told.... whether thats a racist family, society's idea of marriage, religious teachings, etc. After the mental/internal, then comes these other physical factors mostly talked about in this thread... so it can be long process for some, especially if wife/gf never even dated Black man in her past.

But nearly all white women have been exposed to cultural references to Black sexual power now (movies, music). The thought exists subconsciously as a fantasy. What white women need is the opportunity.

For instance, middle-aged white moms I know, who are still hot, tell me they are too afraid to approach an attractive Black man, but they would flirt if he approached them, when they are out in safe public, but alone (shopping). She needs to feel safe and she appreciates the suave Black "nice guy" routine because it gives her social cover while she imagines the possibilities.

One white mom told me that a hot Black man would not have to mention sex, because his presence would make her wet.
 
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I know white families who have recently found out that their female matriarchs were young Freedom Riders in Alabama in the early sixties -- and they weren't just riding the busses. :qos: These matriarchs are starting to tell their IR stories. The young white girls in the families, who like to think that they are cutting edge, are shocked that great-granny was Blacked so long ago. But the grainy Polaroids prove it.
It's good that those women are being upfront about their pasts. That's a part of race relations history that has largely been overlooked. I was a teenage black boy in the 1960s, and I remember the busloads of white folks from northern states coming south to march and more. Yes, as you said, "they weren't just riding the busses". A lot of good, hard sex occurred between the white females from up north and the black males from the south. They ranged in age from grandmothers to college girls, and some were even younger. Some got their first bbc during the Freedom Rides. A few even went home with new life growing in their bellies.
 
My wife trying black was not difficult at all. We have been off and on swingers for around 20 years. We did not pay attention to skin color at the parties, it was about our relationship and great sex. We do love the skin tone contrast when she is with a black man or woman.
 
i believe my women do but they are shy or may be scared to be judged.
That sums it up well. Each woman has her own level of what it takes to come out for bbc. Some are braver and go for it sooner. Others are shyer and reluctant. But as public acceptance of interracial relationships increases, we will see more white women coming out.
 
It's good that those women are being upfront about their pasts. That's a part of race relations history that has largely been overlooked. I was a teenage black boy in the 1960s, and I remember the busloads of white folks from northern states coming south to march and more. Yes, as you said, "they weren't just riding the busses". A lot of good, hard sex occurred between the white females from up north and the black males from the south.
It was a remarkable time in history. White girls, far from home and devoted to Black rights. They were stretching dollars and living with Black families, or roommating in cheap motels. Black men could have smelled their wet pussies from the front of the bus.

Thanks to the Black men who converted their great-grandmas, white girls today can freely express their craving for Black Power.

And I'm sure more than a few whiteboi Freedom Riders had their first experience with makeup, panties and heels. In the sixties they would never have dared venture outside. But today whitebois are proudly embracing their natural femininity.
 
It was a remarkable time in history. White girls, far from home and devoted to Black rights. They were stretching dollars and living with Black families, or roommating in cheap motels. Black men could have smelled their wet pussies from the front of the bus.
Yes, black families welcomed the visiting white folks and enjoyed having them. A lot of the motel owners were old-school white people, which limited the riders' access to commercial lodging. Plus, the visitors got to know us better as they stayed with us and we could talk frankly about our experiences as black people in the south. And you're right, those white pussies did smell mighty fine. :)
 
I am quite familiar with the needs of Black males that age, and I have the lockjaw to show for it. :LOL:

What a time to be Black, swinging the pipe and young enough to "drive the Freedom bus" all night long! :cool:
It was a blessing to be there and active at that time. I enjoyed it then but I appreciate it more as I look back. So many eager females and, yes, some eager white males too. Most of us didn't bet much sleep on those nights but we did what felt good.
 
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