Y'all have me rollin'!!!! I live in Jersey, I can throw a rock and find a stiff dick! Yes some maybe rough around the edges, some may have a silver tongue, some maybe completely clueless, but there's nothing wrong with testing the waters in reality! I can go to 7-11 and come home with a big gulp and dick! What I have read here y'all want a "longterm" blah-blah-blah! Stop yip yappin, and jaw smackin' and get what you want! I'm sorry but REAL women are about getting what they want, not blowing smoke on a site