My longest (and first) was about 7" -- but not as thick as my husband. I really loved that longer cock when he took me bent over a footstool. It reached so far into me! He was very careful, yet also controlling during sex -- a really nice combination.
Why him -- well he was good looking, funny, flirty, well traveled. He really pursued me. He grew more and more flirtatious, complimentary and kept seducing me over the course of several weeks until I finally said yes to a date. It turned out to be a very sexy date, followed by some great sex.