Who is in charge

[Johnboy46]

So from what you described you are not really in charge once they are together.
Its good that she tells him what she wants.

Sounds more like "SHE" tells him what "HE" wants.

 

[Just4funn1962]

Husband is in charge most of the time.. Then wife and I do our thing it works for us.

 

[straff]

My wife’s lover is in charge and sets the rules for her to obey.

 

[Tim & Lori]

My wife Lori is always in charge she has always had final say