Cuthach
Couple
I have often wondered who sets the rules and dictates what will happen. I don't know if this is true for others but my wife is ultimately in charge when she is with Derick. My wife is not a sub to any man or lover. She sets the tone of the evening, how things will progress, and more importantly if and when Derick is allowed to have sex with her. This is not to be confused when she lets Derick decide when and where he puts his penis that she is being subservient. If she didn't want his cock in her mouth she would not let him put it there. Derick understands and complies with her rules. She has never done this but I believe that if she told Derick to stop in the middle of having sex he would without question. Is this common in a relationship or is it odd we are this way?