It was never her thing. We enjoyed being swingers, but that was filled mostly by average suburban white dudes. During a couples play date, she looked over at me having my fun and held up her pinkie. She knew this guy wasn’t going to satisfy her.
We looked into some single males, but they were average too. We happened to find our first bull during this search. Not only was he well hung, he was engaging, respectful, and very eager to please her. That was nearly 8yrs ago. While she’s had one white guy since (British accent!), she continues to seek our hung black bulls for fun.