It's a guy thing, mostly a white guy fantasy. The black guys I've known all have preferences but most are willing to adapt. One of the guys i enjoyed more than once showed me a add he had written. Tall, Blond it started . I'm 5ft brunette and we had several great nights over a two year period until he married. Why must some seek or think any body feature, manner of dress or even silly like nail polish or shoes is a sign of intent or worse certainty of a sexual partner.