I just found this thread, and I might get grief, but I love, as in love BMWW. We have been to Splash Mocha 4 times, and would go every year but for her back issues. Point is, my wife likes black men, but not exclusive. My thing is, and what amazes me, is that out of all the nationalities and races, the only one who "brands" themselves, are white women for black men. One does not see Asian women branding themselves for Indian men, by way of example, nor even black women branding themselves for white men. I do not mind it, and I actually find it exciting, but also think it is wild they do that. I will say I wish my wife had sex with more black men. I want and encourage her, but until her back issues get better, sex is about off the list. AND, how much more popular it is, as evidenced by Splash Mocha expanding to 3 cities and 4 events a year. Every day I look at IR, and when my wife gets better, we will get out there again. Just throwing this out there, as it is wild to me, white women do that. Maybe that shows the power of the black man? Who know, nor cares, just interesting.