Watching porn w/ the ex

[CuriousBlake]

I was in bed with my on-again-off-again (sorta ex) GF.

I grabbed her laptop because we were gonna watch a movie in bed together (already very palpable sexual tension).

but when I did, there was blacked porn pulled up
Part of my thinks this was out there on purpose for me to find…

anyway, she got really embarrassed, and I assured her it’s okay.
Then, I just hit play on the video she was watching and I said “this is what you’re into?”
And she said they just have the best stories

we watched the whole video and when it finished we kept watching more and more

at one point I asked if she was fingering herself under the covers and she said “no but I’m so fucking wet”
And I asked if I could feel
She was absolutely soaking wet, and I started fingering her then ended up going down on her while she kept watching the porn

I came while going down on her right away

what should I do next??

 

[geecrizz]

Tell her you fantasize about her with black men. She’s already into it if she’s watching Blacked.com. “They have the best stories”…yeah right. What they have is dark, muscular, big dicked black men fucking innocent looking white girls (sometimes their first bbc…a nod to the story I guess) and making them go mental on the dick. Maybe she identifies with the “innocent” white girls in the movies. She probably wants to be one of them. In her mind anyway. Now it’s up to you to extract her dirty BBC fantasies and let her know it’s ok with you for her to make them reality.

 

[CuriousBlake]

Tell her you fantasize about her with black men. She’s already into it if she’s watching Blacked.com. “They have the best stories”…yeah right. What they have is dark, muscular, big dicked black men fucking innocent looking white girls (sometimes their first bbc…a nod to the story I guess) and making them go mental on the dick. Maybe she identifies with the “innocent” white girls in the movies. She probably wants to be one of them. In her mind anyway. Now it’s up to you to extract her dirty BBC fantasies and let her know it’s ok with you for her to make them reality.

I don’t know if I can tell her just yet…
But maybe after a few drinks I’ll work up the courage
I’m almost positive she wants to be blacked, though

 

[PawgCelia223]

Interesting situation. I guess the two of you are lucky to have (sort of) each other.

What led to the 'break-up' (if there was one)? Or is this just an undefined friends w benefits situation?

Yes surely she'd like to be Blacked

 

[CuriousBlake]

Interesting situation. I guess the two of you are lucky to have (sort of) each other.

What led to the 'break-up' (if there was one)? Or is this just an undefined friends w benefits situation?

Yes surely she'd like to be Blacked

We broke up because she said she wanted something new and we wanted different things out of life

maybe she meant bbc

I’m pretty sure she wants to be, but what do I do next??
Also if she’s already taking bbc, how do I get involved and watch or have her tell me about it?
It’s not like we’re married, so maybe she’ll just off and do it anyway

 

[PawgCelia223]

We broke up because she said she wanted something new and we wanted different things out of life

maybe she meant bbc

I’m pretty sure she wants to be, but what do I do next??
Also if she’s already taking bbc, how do I get involved and watch or have her tell me about it?
It’s not like we’re married, so maybe she’ll just off and do it anyway

I'd say keep doing what you're doing. You both obviously enjoyed the cunnilingus, and she's bound to start talking dirty about what you and BLACKED do to her.

Even if it's just fantasy for her (right now), having you show your approval by eating her out and her enjoying your sexual service while she watches IR porn has got to have a major impact in reinforcing her IR fantasies. You're helping ******* her to the erotic spectacle of Blacked.

You can start taking little breaks in pleasuring her to make her confess and repeat what those BBCs are doing to her thoughts. 'Edge' her towards confessing, repeating, internalizing and approving her interracial desires.

 

[CuriousBlake]

I'd say keep doing what you're doing. You both obviously enjoyed the cunnilingus, and she's bound to start talking dirty about what you and BLACKED do to her.

Even if it's just fantasy for her (right now), having you show your approval by eating her out and her enjoying your sexual service while she watches IR porn has got to have a major impact in reinforcing her IR fantasies. You're helping ******* her to the erotic spectacle of Blacked.

You can start taking little breaks in pleasuring her to make her confess and repeat what those BBCs are doing to her thoughts. 'Edge' her towards confessing, repeating, internalizing and approving her interracial desires.

Thanks for the advice!
Yeah I definitely think baby steps is the move

I just wanna watch more Blacked porn with her somehow and maybe not get her off but show her how much I enjoy it (last time I came without any stimulation, just in my boxers) from watching and going down on her

 

[PawgCelia223]

So, if u dont mind my asking, how do you two wind up in these situations. Like what is the pretext for the evening together that winds up with you in bed watching porn together? Who says that you're 'not a couple'--her?

You're in the orbiting position, but is she trying to draw you in closer or do u think she's gonna push you out in space? Or is it the sexual service that makes her let you hang out? Do you ever brush her off? Are you needy or is she?

Do you WANT some kind of 'in a relationship' with her? Or are you totally cool with just the way things are going now?

 

[CuriousBlake]

Yeah I guess it does feel like we’re toying w/ the idea of getting back together
Maybe she just wanted some space

I went over to hers for dinner and afterwards, we were gonna watch a movie
She has a small studio apartment, so we were gonna watch a movie in bed together after dinner

like I said, I grabbed her laptop to pull up a movie and blacked porn was already up

 

[PawgCelia223]

Who was the star, do you know?

Does she like to watch porn girls who resemble her type?

 

[CuriousBlake]

It was Jason Luv and later one w/ Julio Gomez I think his name is
And she’s a brunette w/ light eyes and we watched a few videos w/ women who look like her

 

[CuriousBlake]

Anyone have any recs on vids to show her next time?

 

[BBCBuff]

 

[CuriousBlake]

?

 

[rustyshackleford]

I'd say keep doing what you're doing. You both obviously enjoyed the cunnilingus, and she's bound to start talking dirty about what you and BLACKED do to her.

Even if it's just fantasy for her (right now), having you show your approval by eating her out and her enjoying your sexual service while she watches IR porn has got to have a major impact in reinforcing her IR fantasies. You're helping ******* her to the erotic spectacle of Blacked.

You can start taking little breaks in pleasuring her to make her confess and repeat what those BBCs are doing to her thoughts. 'Edge' her towards confessing, repeating, internalizing and approving her interracial desires.

I think I'd like to eat you out while you watch IR porn

 

[BiSubCuck]

She like many other women are confused about their mixture of feelings. She wants BBC and she loves being with you. Thats the things she is likely really struggling with. You need to find a way to bravely tell her you'd want to love her forever, and it wouldnt matter how many Black lovers she had. Tell her you'd be proud of her and would even understand if it was only Black cock she wanted inside her. And add that you always feel happier giving her pral pleasure anyway. Shes a keeper by the sounds of things. Best of luck

 

[CuriousBlake]

She like many other women are confused about their mixture of feelings. She wants BBC and she loves being with you. Thats the things she is likely really struggling with. You need to find a way to bravely tell her you'd want to love her forever, and it wouldnt matter how many Black lovers she had. Tell her you'd be proud of her and would even understand if it was only Black cock she wanted inside her. And add that you always feel happier giving her pral pleasure anyway. Shes a keeper by the sounds of things. Best of luck

Thanks!
We’re now dating again
We watch blacked almost every time we hang out either as foreplay, while I go down on her, and once while we fucked!

I think it’s time to broach the subject of her taking it for real, but I’m still nervous to to be honest

 

[geecrizz]

Thanks!
We’re now dating again
We watch blacked almost every time we hang out either as foreplay, while I go down on her, and once while we fucked!

I think it’s time to broach the subject of her taking it for real, but I’m still nervous to to be honest

Since you’ve watched Blacked with her pretty regularly, she could just be waiting for you to give her the nod. Maybe it would be easier to write her a message of some kind instead of having to tell her face to face. That’s what I did with my wife. Believe me, I sat there with my finger over the send button for quite a while before I finally said fuck it and just did it. I sent her an email while she was traveling for work. In my case it worked out great. I mean, I had seen many signs that she would be receptive to spreading her legs for another man. But I don’t think any of them were as good as watching a black guy fuck a white girl like Blacked. Some of their stories are right up your alley too. A wife or a girlfriend craving blsck sex and her and her husband or boyfriend have a talk about it and then she does it. If that doesn’t get you close to the goal I don’t know what does. It could be as simple as cueing up one of the Blacked vids where the woman is openly cuckolding her man, watching it and then telling her you’d be into that kind of thing. The funny thing about my situation looking back is that my wife responded with a “maybe, I’ll think about it” at first but I’m pretty sure now that that was all bullshit. She just didn’t want to seem to eager. Within days she had agreed in principle to start having sex with other guys. Good luck.

 

[CuriousBlake]

that’s great advice, thank you!!
I can’t bring myself to tell her just yet, but we watch a lot of blacked
Pretty much every night now

 

[CuriousBlake]

Any suggestions on what to tell her?