Want bbc for my wife, how to convince her?

[jmw]

Hello,

I post here because I would love to hear from women who have done it, and who maybe have been taking a while to do so...

For some time now, i have this fantasy of sharing my wife with another man.

We have been married for almost 20 years and we have 2 children.

We both like afro culture (people, music, food,...) and It turns me on terribly to imagine her taking a bbc.

I told her about my fantasy 2 years ago now. She was a bit confused at first, and she told me she could never do that. After talking about it 2 or 3 times she told me that she could accept a massage without going any further.

But I feel that the idea turns her a lot too. She's just too shy to admit it to me. We bought a realistic black dildo a when we play with it, she get several orgasms and her pussy is sooo wet... I know her well and I know that she wants it very much. It's hard to explain...

I know that if the opportunity presented itself, it would not take long for her to take it in her mouth and in her little pussy

But every time I talk about it a little more concretely, there is a blockage. Once she answered me "Let's imagine i say yes. And what? You will look for a man on a dating website? No way!"

She doesn't like to watch porn, and above all, i don't want to for_ce her in any way. So i don't know what to do...

I really wish the desire would grow and she would dare to tell me.

Do you have any advices? Or should i just forget about it?

I also have some concerns about regretting it later. I love her and the goal is just to have fun and break the routine. I certainly don't want her to become a queen of spades or something. I don't even like the term "cuckold", that's not how i see things, and i intend to continue fucking her for a long time, but no matter, it's another topic

Thanks you for you thoughts ladies

 

[Splashgirlx]

You don't convince her. You just let her x

 

[jmw]

You are totally right, thank you for reminding me. The title is poorly chosen, (i don't speak english very well as you can see ), I don't want to convince her, nor do I want her to do it to please me.

 

[jmw]

Maybe i'm too direct when I talk to her about it (and in fact it doesn't happen very often, we must have talked about it 3 or 4 times in 2 years).

My desire is probably too strong and maybe i imagine something that will never happen. But it's very frustrating because I feel that she wants it too. We both had a very oldschool education and sharing your wife or your husband is just not something you do...

Are there women who have taken the step when it was their husband's fantasy at first?

If so, are there any words, situations or other things that influenced you?

Sorry for all the questions

 

[john1984]

Maybe i'm too direct when I talk to her about it (and in fact it doesn't happen very often, we must have talked about it 3 or 4 times in 2 years).

My desire is probably too strong and maybe i imagine something that will never happen. But it's very frustrating because I feel that she wants it too. We both had a very oldschool education and sharing your wife or your husband is just not something you do...

Are there women who have taken the step when it was their husband's fantasy at first?

If so, are there any words, situations or other things that influenced you?

Sorry for all the questions

I am in the same situation. How long has she taken the bbc dildo? I think after using that bbc dildo on her for 1 months she will be addicted to it. After she is addicted you can try ir porn. If she don't want put it intentionally but when she is excited. After 1 month doing this things you can speak with her about having a bbc but only when she is in orgasms. She will love it.
You need time.

My wife told me she will never have one and as well she don't like ir por. When we made sex and she was very horny the porn scene changed to ir porn scene. She didn't say noting. It was a 45 minutes blacked movie where the black man filled all the holes of the white woman. She was very horny. When i asked her if she like she sad yessss. So it is only mater of time. In the end which woman don't want to have a bbc in her pussy with the concepts of her husband,bf.

 

[502hw4bbc]

The best advice I can give you is to reach out to DR 36 on thecuckoldconsultant website and buy a custom plan from him. I tried for 3 years to get her onboard by myself and had nothing but frustration. After about 3 weeks of following DR 36's plan it worked and its been full steam ahead ever since! Best money I have ever spent! Good luck!

 

[Dana67]

Hello,

I post here because I would love to hear from women who have done it, and who maybe have been taking a while to do so...

For some time now, i have this fantasy of sharing my wife with another man.

We have been married for almost 20 years and we have 2 children.

We both like afro culture (people, music, food,...) and It turns me on terribly to imagine her taking a bbc.

I told her about my fantasy 2 years ago now. She was a bit confused at first, and she told me she could never do that. After talking about it 2 or 3 times she told me that she could accept a massage without going any further.

But I feel that the idea turns her a lot too. She's just too shy to admit it to me. We bought a realistic black dildo a when we play with it, she get several orgasms and her pussy is sooo wet... I know her well and I know that she wants it very much. It's hard to explain...

I know that if the opportunity presented itself, it would not take long for her to take it in her mouth and in her little pussy

But every time I talk about it a little more concretely, there is a blockage. Once she answered me "Let's imagine i say yes. And what? You will look for a man on a dating website? No way!"

She doesn't like to watch porn, and above all, i don't want to for_ce her in any way. So i don't know what to do...

I really wish the desire would grow and she would dare to tell me.

Do you have any advices? Or should i just forget about it?

I also have some concerns about regretting it later. I love her and the goal is just to have fun and break the routine. I certainly don't want her to become a queen of spades or something. I don't even like the term "cuckold", that's not how i see things, and i intend to continue fucking her for a long time, but no matter, it's another topic

Thanks you for you thoughts ladies

Just get her the massage. Obviously from a well endowed male *******. By her telling you “a massage and that’s all” is same as saying “yes“ but didn’t want to verbally say it. Dont be dumb, you’re in ! Otherwise, she would have flatly said no. Think about it…

 

[Wife4Black77]

Hello,

I post here because I would love to hear from women who have done it, and who maybe have been taking a while to do so...

For some time now, i have this fantasy of sharing my wife with another man.

We have been married for almost 20 years and we have 2 children.

We both like afro culture (people, music, food,...) and It turns me on terribly to imagine her taking a bbc.

I told her about my fantasy 2 years ago now. She was a bit confused at first, and she told me she could never do that. After talking about it 2 or 3 times she told me that she could accept a massage without going any further.

But I feel that the idea turns her a lot too. She's just too shy to admit it to me. We bought a realistic black dildo a when we play with it, she get several orgasms and her pussy is sooo wet... I know her well and I know that she wants it very much. It's hard to explain...

I know that if the opportunity presented itself, it would not take long for her to take it in her mouth and in her little pussy

But every time I talk about it a little more concretely, there is a blockage. Once she answered me "Let's imagine i say yes. And what? You will look for a man on a dating website? No way!"

She doesn't like to watch porn, and above all, i don't want to for_ce her in any way. So i don't know what to do...

I really wish the desire would grow and she would dare to tell me.

Do you have any advices? Or should i just forget about it?

I also have some concerns about regretting it later. I love her and the goal is just to have fun and break the routine. I certainly don't want her to become a queen of spades or something. I don't even like the term "cuckold", that's not how i see things, and i intend to continue fucking her for a long time, but no matter, it's another topic

Thanks you for you thoughts ladies

What should you say? Easy…

Tell her you find the fantasy hot as hell, and it’s such a turn on that she enjoys playing with the fantasy with you, given her multiple orgasms on the black toy with sex talk.

Tell her that there is no rush or even mandate that she has to do it in real life. The fantasy play gets both of you hot and brings satisfaction.

Tell her that she is in the drivers seat. You will not for-ce her or put her in any unsafe situations. But what she does have is freedom to fantasize about whatever sexy black man she wants, and if a black guy comes to to her the decision to take it further, or not, is completely up to her. Tell her to think how powerful and powerfully sexy this arrangement is. She has the freedom and discretion to pursue a red hot sexual relationship with any black guy she wants, while you are still 100% committed to her and that’s exactly the way you want it.

Reassure her that you want this fantasy so bad but the one thing you need to make sure of is that you don’t want to lose her to another guy. If she can separate sex from romantic love this could be amazing for both of you but if she’s worried about that maybe it should just remain a fantasy. Tell her of course we could set up rules that really minimize the risk (no play without you there for example) but she is too important to you to risk losing her. Even a sex kitten wants to know that her relationship with her husband is still very much valued by her husband.

Make sure to use some well timed sex talk when she is starting to get into the black toy, such as “Oh baby this black man has wanted to fuck your tight little pussy for so long with his big black cock, he wants to make you cum so hard that you will want to fuck him all the time.”

I would imagine that there are very few black men near you, so tell your wife you would like to take a trip to the Caribbean. Tell her you just want to have a relaxing time with her and black guys will probably hit on her but you will be there to keep her safe and to make sure her decisions are respected. She doesn’t have to do anything with anyone she doesn’t want to, but it would be super hot if she danced with one of them if they ask.

 

[c4BBC8182]

IH best advice I can give you is to reach out to DR 36 on thecuckoldconsultant website and buy a custom plan from him. I tried for 3 years to get her onboard by myself and had nothing but frustration. After about 3 weeks of following DR 36's plan it worked and its been full steam ahead ever since! Best money I have ever spent! Good luck!

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[yungcupl4bbc]

Hi....may I ask you about it...would you dm me...

Same seeing how you can do them

 

[larry winn]

What should you say? Easy…

Tell her you find the fantasy hot as hell, and it’s such a turn on that she enjoys playing with the fantasy with you, given her multiple orgasms on the black toy with sex talk.

Tell her that there is no rush or even mandate that she has to do it in real life. The fantasy play gets both of you hot and brings satisfaction.

Tell her that she is in the drivers seat. You will not for-ce her or put her in any unsafe situations. But what she does have is freedom to fantasize about whatever sexy black man she wants, and if a black guy comes to to her the decision to take it further, or not, is completely up to her. Tell her to think how powerful and powerfully sexy this arrangement is. She has the freedom and discretion to pursue a red hot sexual relationship with any black guy she wants, while you are still 100% committed to her and that’s exactly the way you want it.

Reassure her that you want this fantasy so bad but the one thing you need to make sure of is that you don’t want to lose her to another guy. If she can separate sex from romantic love this could be amazing for both of you but if she’s worried about that maybe it should just remain a fantasy. Tell her of course we could set up rules that really minimize the risk (no play without you there for example) but she is too important to you to risk losing her. Even a sex kitten wants to know that her relationship with her husband is still very much valued by her husband.

Make sure to use some well timed sex talk when she is starting to get into the black toy, such as “Oh baby this black man has wanted to fuck your tight little pussy for so long with his big black cock, he wants to make you cum so hard that you will want to fuck him all the time.”

I would imagine that there are very few black men near you, so tell your wife you would like to take a trip to the Caribbean. Tell her you just want to have a relaxing time with her and black guys will probably hit on her but you will be there to keep her safe and to make sure her decisions are respected. She doesn’t have to do anything with anyone she doesn’t want to, but it would be super hot if she danced with one of them if they ask.

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