There seems to be a lot less people interested in this lifestyle here in the uk and anyone that does seem to be are always hours away, is this mostly an American thing?
U.K. is pretty quiet
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I am from the UK
I've found the scene in UK to be surprisingly big, but people use other website/s to share information and arrange hook ups than this place.
Any you can guide us to?
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I've also found that there is a growing "scene" in London. I've met quite a few people on this site from London (what other sites are you using?)
I personally have a profile on fab swingers site (google fab swingers and you'll find it) and that has worked well for me for hook ups and finding information about swinger scene and clubs. It's not specifically an interracial site, but has lots of black men on it and it's fairly easy to find info about ir parties.
Also, BMFC (Black Men's Fan Club) and Team Player Parties organise events that I've been to and have found fun. (again, just google the names and you should find info)
Also, BMFC (Black Men's Fan Club) and Team Player Parties organise events that I've been to and have found fun. (again, just google the names and you should find info)
BMFC is fun, hope to meet you there one day Lilly. X
That's odd that you've found it so difficult to find genuine people on Fab Swingers. Maybe it's different for single ladies, but my problem is too many nice attractive guys rather than lack of them and I've been lucky to meet some great people.
I'd recommend to attend a club or a party and that way you can get to know some real people and take things further if you wish to do so.
Thanks. Yes we've found that but you're probably right, it's more to do with being a couple I think and some people who are sceptical about joining an attractive couple - probably don't think we are genuine even though our profiles were verified. We were in London on the weekend and spoke about going to a club so I think we may try that to start with. We've cammed and spoken to people but theres never been a follow-up when MMF has been discussed.
I think that's a great non-pressured way to start - when you go to a party there's no pressure to have sex with any particular person, you can socialise and see if there's a connection with anyone. If meeting one-to-one, I only meet guys who have several verification. That way I know they are experienced and trustworthy and I'm not likely to be let down.
I think so. It's not easy to start off with but meeting1-1 is a lot easier than online. Experience and trustworthiness is key for us. Any help and/or guidance is most welcome...!! Thanks again.
Thank you for the reply. We are not based in London and quite a way from there so that could be an issue! We haven't - chatted to a lot but no meets yet. Would be great to stay in touch.
Another fab fan here, best site we've found for meets, yes there are time wasters there but once you know how to avoid wasting time on them it's a brilliant site for couples and females, , clubs are another great way of meeting and having fun.
We are in the Uk
