Not understanding, are you saying your husband would like to see you have sex with a black man, while he watches? That is one definition of being a cuckold. Technically, cuckold is a broad term, that covers men who are cheated on by their wives, but in the local context, it's usually used that it's where the wife wants to have sex with black men, and the husband/boyfriend is okay with that (or is willing to allow it, even if not totally okay with it)