We are trying to arrange a birthday present for Lesley and me of course.It's in about 3 weeks. We've gotten some responses and we have three potential suitors linedup. The popularity of our hookup ads seem to have worked because we've got guys coming out of the woodwork so of the three we have confidence that at least one might show up the other two not so much so tell us B2W world is it fair to have three guys lined up knowing that at least one is going to flake and hope the other one of the two actually show up.If two or three of them actually do show up I'm sure some women would be in heaven. But Lesley or I are not ready for the game bang thing not yet anyway that's the point is it fair to take appointments from three different guys and picking one and letting the other two flap in the breeze