Stag and not cuck

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

I am new to this and I am still "learning". A couple of days ago I learned a new term. Stag. Which I think is more accurate to my preferences. I am mot interested in any submissive actions. Just want to watch my wifes pussy and ass being stretched to the limit by a dominant BBC for her pleasure. None of all this close ups, touching other mens gear or cleaning up. Just watch and enjoy my wife getting pounded and well handled. I am also not into swinging, which alot seems to be. Satisfied with my huge tit sex godess and can not see my self with any other.

I have not yet introduced my wife to this fantasy of mine, still have to wait at least a year before I reveal it. We are not in a position to have advanced XXX-adventures right now, but next year there will be more time for that. We are "joking" around at home about BBC and I think my wife as usual already has read my mind. I want to introduce her to this in a dirty fashion, tie her up, blindfold her and play with her and end up putting a huge black dildo in her tight pussy when she is close to cum. So I hope she has not read my mind and are happily surprised.

I really hope she will not turn this fantasy down, she is very into let me play out my fantasies on her. She always find it nice and exciting, but I am afraid that she would fear this step.

I do not know if she will feel like it is cheating. I certainly would not see it like that, this is purely sexual and nothing else. Kind of watching a porn movie IRL with your happy wife as the main role. We are happily married and have been together for 14 years. We always find ways to spice up our sex life, but I this might be a to big step for her.

My big two big question are:

1. How many in this forum would consider them as stags and not cucks? Would be nice to have similar minded to talk with in a own thread.

2. All you ladies out there who has stags, where you afraid you would feel like cheating and if so why where you convinced to try it out?

My wife and me always are able to talk about everything in a good way, but this fantasy is really important to me so I really want to prepare as much as possible to make it a success!

Same, and very well said

 

[hotwifejasmine]

Well to many clean ups and all other submissive stuff in the forum, even in threads I thought I would not read about it. My personal opinion is that it is strange and there for I wanted a thread to connect with like minded, where non of it appeared.

I do not care what u think or not or if stag is an undergroup to cuck - who the F cares any way. Is this an university with lectures about this and that or a forum to find like minded when it comes to sexual matters? To many at this forum writes about things I can not relate to. Simple as that. Now I found like minded, which is nice.

So I do not understand why it is so important for you to participate in the thread if you are not a stag. Or what ever you and/or "everybody else" call it.

Since human sexuality has a huge range, and recognizing that everyone has their own kink, which in order for everyone involved to get what they want out of any sexual encounter, they must get off in some form or other. It seems totally unreasonable and small minded to come on this site and minimize everyone's particular kink, and then posture that "yours" is the only one that matters, and the only genre you wish to read about in a public forum, which by definition you cannot control to only include your particular kink!

Intolerance of others lifestyles and preferences is not acceptable in any walk of life. If you cannot relate, and most importantly respect the fact that others have different tastes and inflections than you, and it irritates you or offends you, then get the fuck off this site and take your toxicity with you.

For many here, the joy of sites like this is that we can all share our experiences, and preferences without being attacked for them being different or counter to that of others... it's open to all!

You must be a real "pleasure" to know in life!

Pops

 

[swecuckw]

Since human sexuality has a huge range, and recognizing that everyone has their own kink, which in order for everyone involved to get what they want out of any sexual encounter, they must get off in some form or other. It seems totally unreasonable and small minded to come on this site and minimize everyone's particular kink, and then posture that "yours" is the only one that matters, and the only genre you wish to read about in a public forum, which by definition you cannot control to only include your particular kink!

Intolerance of others lifestyles and preferences is not acceptable in any walk of life. If you cannot relate, and most importantly respect the fact that others have different tastes and inflections than you, and it irritates you or offends you, then get the fuck off this site and take your toxicity with you.

For many here, the joy of sites like this is that we can all share our experiences, and preferences without being attacked for them being different or counter to that of others... it's open to all!

You must be a real "pleasure" to know in life!

Pops

I explained why I started the thread. If I personally feel something is strange, how can that be toxic? Things I like are strange to others. I do not care and do understand if they think so.

I do not judge any one, people do what they like. But there is obviously some people here that takes this thread to serious and have minds made of glass.

 

[hotwifejasmine]

1. How many in this forum would consider them as stags and not cucks? Would be nice to have similar minded to talk with in a own thread.

I do not care what u think or not or if stag is an undergroup to cuck - who the F cares any way. Is this an university with lectures about this and that or a forum to find like minded when it comes to sexual matters? To many at this forum writes about things I can not relate to. Simple as that. Now I found like minded, which is nice.

You were the one that asked the question above. And you were the one that returned the comment above!

So, why ask the question and then go on to state you do not care what people think??? Then go on with your judgmental comment of "To" [sic] Too many at this forum "writes" [sic] write about things I can not relate to" These are very judgmental, dismissive comments. And I may add, were posed by you on the cuckold forum! Who and what do you expect to find on a cuckold forum? Yet you claim to be uninterested in that genre, and opinions of people on this forum, and you have this passive aggressive stance to cuckolds??? A very confusing and offensive position indeed!

Pops

 

[swecuckw]

1. How many in this forum would consider them as stags and not cucks? Would be nice to have similar minded to talk with in a own thread.

I do not care what u think or not or if stag is an undergroup to cuck - who the F cares any way. Is this an university with lectures about this and that or a forum to find like minded when it comes to sexual matters? To many at this forum writes about things I can not relate to. Simple as that. Now I found like minded, which is nice.

You were the one that asked the question above. And you were the one that returned the comment above!

So, why ask the question and then go on to state you do not care what people think??? Then go on with your judgmental comment of "To" [sic] Too many at this forum "writes" [sic] write about things I can not relate to" These are very judgmental, dismissive comments. And I may add, were posed by you on the cuckold forum! Who and what do you expect to find on a cuckold forum? Yet you claim to be uninterested in that genre, and opinions of people on this forum, and you have this passive aggressive stance to cuckolds??? A very confusing and offensive position indeed!

Pops

Passive aggressive? Well that came from the right person. Yeah, I can be straight forward and use a swear word or two when encountered by the lame Mr Besserwisser.

I specified what I am interested of exactly and what I am not interested of. If you can not take that, that is your problem. I wanted a thread with like minded and all hell breaks lose among Karens and Mr Besserwissers. But it is also quite entertaining to see your reactions.

Take a chill pill. Can not see why you are overreacting for no good reason.

Cuck means that I want to see another guy give my wife a nice ride, but as I noticed there is sub groups to cuckolding, in my case stag. Why do you have a problem with a thread where I can find likeminded?

 

[hotwifejasmine]

Passive aggressive? Well that came from the right person. Yeah, I can be straight forward and use a swear word or two when encountered by the lame Mr Besserwisser.

I specified what I am interested of exactly and what I am not interested of. If you can not take that, that is your problem. I wanted a thread with like minded and all hell breaks lose among Karens and Mr Besserwissers. But it is also quite entertaining to see your reactions.

Take a chill pill. Can not see why you are overreacting for no good reason.

Cuck means that I want to see another guy give my wife a nice ride, but as I noticed there is sub groups to cuckolding, in my case stag. Why do you have a problem with a thread where I can find likeminded?

I do not care what u think or not

Eat these words...there're yours Life's a bitch isn't it!

Pops

 

[lov2plsu]

I am new to this and I am still "learning". A couple of days ago I learned a new term. Stag. Which I think is more accurate to my preferences. I am mot interested in any submissive actions. Just want to watch my wifes pussy and ass being stretched to the limit by a dominant BBC for her pleasure. None of all this close ups, touching other mens gear or cleaning up. Just watch and enjoy my wife getting pounded and well handled. I am also not into swinging, which alot seems to be. Satisfied with my huge tit sex godess and can not see my self with any other.

I have not yet introduced my wife to this fantasy of mine, still have to wait at least a year before I reveal it. We are not in a position to have advanced XXX-adventures right now, but next year there will be more time for that. We are "joking" around at home about BBC and I think my wife as usual already has read my mind. I want to introduce her to this in a dirty fashion, tie her up, blindfold her and play with her and end up putting a huge black dildo in her tight pussy when she is close to cum. So I hope she has not read my mind and are happily surprised.

I really hope she will not turn this fantasy down, she is very into let me play out my fantasies on her. She always find it nice and exciting, but I am afraid that she would fear this step.

I do not know if she will feel like it is cheating. I certainly would not see it like that, this is purely sexual and nothing else. Kind of watching a porn movie IRL with your happy wife as the main role. We are happily married and have been together for 14 years. We always find ways to spice up our sex life, but I this might be a to big step for her.

My big two big question are:

1. How many in this forum would consider them as stags and not cucks? Would be nice to have similar minded to talk with in a own thread.

2. All you ladies out there who has stags, where you afraid you would feel like cheating and if so why where you convinced to try it out?

My wife and me always are able to talk about everything in a good way, but this fantasy is really important to me so I really want to prepare as much as possible to make it a success!

my wife n i talk about it a lot n i am getting her ready to try BBC n so so its may work going to the islands in nov n thats where i will get her to try BBC my wifes gf has tried it when she went away n her hubby played golf n she had 2 men from the hotel n now she is hooked on bbc , my wife rosemarie i feel will be ready i booked us at the same hotel in Jamaica i am not that small i am 8x6 shaved smooth as rose is too!

 

[swecuckw]

Eat these words...there're yours Life's a bitch isn't it!

Pops

All right? Well. I find life quite nice and easy going actually. Hope you will to some day...

 

[swecuckw]

my wife n i talk about it a lot n i am getting her ready to try BBC n so so its may work going to the islands in nov n thats where i will get her to try BBC my wifes gf has tried it when she went away n her hubby played golf n she had 2 men from the hotel n now she is hooked on bbc , my wife rosemarie i feel will be ready i booked us at the same hotel in Jamaica i am not that small i am 8x6 shaved smooth as rose is too!

Lovely to hear!

Really hope I convince my wife to do take the BBC-train as well. Counting down to when there will be time to introduce her to my fantasy.

Two at a same time as u talk about would be even better. See hear enyoing the ride!

 

[Naughtygators]

This discussion seemed to of taken a turn or squabbles about definitions. Who gives a *******! I haven’t found a category we fit perfectly into yet. Call yourself what you want and just have fun. I would consider us a stag/vixen couple. But, as an alpha bi male our MFM fun can get more interesting. It has nothing to do w humiliation or similar current cuck philosophies. I enjoy the excitement when my wife goes off for a solo date. She just had one last night. I directed her to record it. Instead of coming home and watching it, I asked her to just send me screen shots over the next few days. She sent the attached to start. We played last night after her date knowing full well he finished in her. The sex was amazing for both of us.
Is all that cuck related, power dynamic…. Don’t know, don’t care. For us, it’s just a way of extending our own sexual foreplay. A challenge after 20yrs of marriage.
#2 It’s all about communication. We very respectfully let our bulls know they are just toys for our sexual pleasure. No different than a vibrator. We are friends w our bulls and by know means do we actually treat them as “objects”, but we do make it clear that their role is to augment our relationship. None have complained yet!!
Again, just have fun. Talk things out, and over time what you both want will likely change. Embrace it, discuss it and be open to everyone’s exploration.

 

[Allie Wild]

The most approximate label for us would be stag/vixen, but like most other things it's a spectrum. For example we're not into humiliation per se, but I can tell you that as soon as I start telling Mr. Wild how much bigger my Bull's cock is or how much better my Bull fucks me his dick explodes . Does that make him a cuckold? We don't think so. Those are just statements of fact, but it definitely turns us both on in the process.

 

[swecuckw]

This discussion seemed to of taken a turn or squabbles about definitions. Who gives a *******! I haven’t found a category we fit perfectly into yet. Call yourself what you want and just have fun. I would consider us a stag/vixen couple. But, as an alpha bi male our MFM fun can get more interesting. It has nothing to do w humiliation or similar current cuck philosophies. I enjoy the excitement when my wife goes off for a solo date. She just had one last night. I directed her to record it. Instead of coming home and watching it, I asked her to just send me screen shots over the next few days. She sent the attached to start. We played last night after her date knowing full well he finished in her. The sex was amazing for both of us.
Is all that cuck related, power dynamic…. Don’t know, don’t care. For us, it’s just a way of extending our own sexual foreplay. A challenge after 20yrs of marriage.
#2 It’s all about communication. We very respectfully let our bulls know they are just toys for our sexual pleasure. No different than a vibrator. We are friends w our bulls and by know means do we actually treat them as “objects”, but we do make it clear that their role is to augment our relationship. None have complained yet!!
Again, just have fun. Talk things out, and over time what you both want will likely change. Embrace it, discuss it and be open to everyone’s exploration.

Amen!

Now the thread is developing the way I wanted.

Me and my wife have been together 13 years, married for 6. Like I said in the intro my wife has so far always loved my fantasies and we really enjoys our sex life. But this kind of fantasy is like you say something that would add extra spice and excitment.

Sounds like you have found good bulls. I congratulates you.

I also would like to be abscent when they do their thing and rather watch it when filmed or why not live via cameras placed in the room where the actions happens.

 

[Naughtygators]

Amen!

Now the thread is developing the way I wanted.

Me and my wife have been together 13 years, married for 6. Like I said in the intro my wife has so far always loved my fantasies and we really enjoys our sex life. But this kind of fantasy is like you say something that would add extra spice and excitment.

Sounds like you have found good bulls. I congratulates you.

I also would like to be abscent when they do their thing and rather watch it when filmed or why not live via cameras placed in the room where the actions happens.

We started w MFM play. It made her more comfortable w me in the room. I would normally join in as she wanted, but as I could see her become more focused on him, slowly step back while still reminder her I was there. That usually allowed me time to move around and record the fun. I also had to balance this to avoid being to obtrusive and distracting to her or the bull. The bull had to have trust in me that nothing would be shared that would violate his privacy request. I believe I’ve lived up to that despite all my media post. I would share edited pics w our bill for his own use as a sign of trust and encouragement of future fun.

We have been very luck to not only find physically amazing bulls, but most importantly all have been highly educated professionals in their personal lives. They could engage in great conversations, were reliable and just great people to be around. Because of this, we have developed trust w our bulls. This allowed her to feel comfortable and go off on solo play. I make it clear that my only desires are for her to have fun and that she record it. On one occasion while traveling, I did get a live video chat. That’s was pretty hot, but has plus and minuses. You feel kind of out of place as you stare at yourself watching them and it can take them out of it as well, but it was hot to watch her fun in real time. I haven’t found a good way to record that too though.

We’ve only had a few, but because we found great ones, we’ve stuck w them for years in some cases.
I will fully admit that after 24yrs together, it is this outside play that keeps our marriage strong and fun. It requires great communication, but it also satisfies our sexual desires.

 

[luvwife-w-bbc]

More labels. Get over how other people may want to classify you and just enjoy yourselves. It's not like you're making name tags to wear around in public.

 

[swecuckw]

We started w MFM play. It made her more comfortable w me in the room. I would normally join in as she wanted, but as I could see her become more focused on him, slowly step back while still reminder her I was there. That usually allowed me time to move around and record the fun. I also had to balance this to avoid being to obtrusive and distracting to her or the bull. The bull had to have trust in me that nothing would be shared that would violate his privacy request. I believe I’ve lived up to that despite all my media post. I would share edited pics w our bill for his own use as a sign of trust and encouragement of future fun.

We have been very luck to not only find physically amazing bulls, but most importantly all have been highly educated professionals in their personal lives. They could engage in great conversations, were reliable and just great people to be around. Because of this, we have developed trust w our bulls. This allowed her to feel comfortable and go off on solo play. I make it clear that my only desires are for her to have fun and that she record it. On one occasion while traveling, I did get a live video chat. That’s was pretty hot, but has plus and minuses. You feel kind of out of place as you stare at yourself watching them and it can take them out of it as well, but it was hot to watch her fun in real time. I haven’t found a good way to record that too though.

We’ve only had a few, but because we found great ones, we’ve stuck w them for years in some cases.
I will fully admit that after 24yrs together, it is this outside play that keeps our marriage strong and fun. It requires great communication, but it also satisfies our sexual desires.

Sounds amazing and also thank you for good input to look for stable bulls and not randomly select. The bulls are in a really hard position when it comes to the filming part, they really need trust before allowing filming of course.

I will not demand to be with them the first sessions, if this fantasy of mine gets to be reality. Good because of two reasons I think. Firstly, they get to know each other, get the sexual play to be more synced - time to make it more explosive for me the first time I watch. Secondly, get the bull to feel safe that the goal with the film is not for sharing but only for private use.

If me and my wife go through with this I will get alot of video equipment. There is all kind of small discret cameras these days that is easy to put up in different places and not über expensive, so that the involved parties does not get disturbed by them. But of course, it is hard to find all good angles, light settings and stuff!

Great thanks for everything you are sharing. Communication is always the key, me and my wife has great communications and I trust her fully. I just am afraid she will feel like cheating (even though this is a fantasy that is mine from the start), but I will not "push" the fantasy on her. Just let her know about it and let it sink in. Let her play with the fantasy by her self for a while.

 

[swecuckw]

More labels. Get over how other people may want to classify you and just enjoy yourselves. It's not like you're making name tags to wear around in public.

Labels helps getting in touch with like minded. Can not really see the problem.

 

[StanleyCush1]

Definition of Cuckold

Essential Meaning of cuckold
old-fashioned : a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery

Definition of wittol​

1archaic : a man who knows of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it
2archaic : a witless person

These definitions make sense to me, a Stag is a cuckold and a wittol, a Hotwife is a Cuckoldress. Calling oneself a Stag, Vixen or even a Hotwife doesn't change that but enjoy the lifestyle if you wish.

 

[swecuckw]

Definition of Cuckold

Essential Meaning of cuckold
old-fashioned : a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery

Definition of wittol​

1archaic : a man who knows of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it
2archaic : a witless person

These definitions make sense to me, a Stag is a cuckold and a wittol, a Hotwife is a Cuckoldress. Calling oneself a Stag, Vixen or even a Hotwife doesn't change that but enjoy the lifestyle if you wish.

Again. 75-80% I read in other threads are clean ups. Obviously calling it stag helps. I just want to get in contact with likeminded and not reading about clean ups in the thread. So I am happy with the result.

 

[SecretLifeCpl]

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